C.B.
Dear V. B,
Both my boys are adopted. I have had them since birth. We started out by joining a group Adoption Advocates Advisory. They meet in Northwest Austin. They are a support group for all parties involved in adoption, the birth parents, the adopted, and adoptive parents.
Luckily we live in a state where the laws for adoption are simple.
You need to think about what kind of adoption relationship you want as parents; if a anglo, bi-racial, foreign (non-American) child is what you want. Thirdly, do you want a private adoption or go through an agency.
We used an agency in Dallas. We also interviewed and agency in San Antonio. I have many friends that have adopted children, and each family has its own unique story.
Like many others, I could probably write a book. I will end it by saying we have one Hispanic child and one bi-racial (Hispanic and anglo) child and believe it or not they actually look like brothers (two different sets of birth parents).
I hope this gives you a good starting point.
Peace,
C. M.
A little about me: SAHM to two wonderful boys (ages almost 10 and almost 6) and married to my knight in shinning armor.