A Gift for 11 Year Old Girl

Updated on August 28, 2012
E.V. asks from Tempe, AZ
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My friend just said that her 11 year old girl is very sick, probably liver cancer. This friend is a very nice lady, when my son was born with cleft I found her blog about her other daughter who was born with cleft, too.
She encouraged me, supported me and she even sent me a surgery package all the way from America to Indonesia ( although we only know each other in online world, and she has huge bills to pay).
This news is a shock. Her oldest is really energetic and vibrant, it just so sudden. My friend told me that her daughter is now very exhausted and emotional, also in very much pain. I asked her if I can send something and she said flowers?
Well, the problem is she lives in NY and I live here faraway. How can I order flowers? Besides why flowers? Is it the culture here?
I told her I can order something from amazon, that's the only site I know that can send gift.
What should i give to her?
And also please pray for her and family. Thanks so much.

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K.L.

answers from Washington DC on

Flowers seem like a strange thing to send to an 11 year old girl. Maybe there is something I don't know about culture?

Anyway, I have a daughter who is turning 11 tomorrow. We gave her an iPod touch for her birthday. Obviously you're not planning on purchasing something of that magnitude, but if you know this little girl has one then maybe an iTunes gift card, so she can purchase some new games to play while she is sick? Other things my daughter received for her birthday from her friends - a couple of t-shirts from Justice (she and all of her friends LOVE that store!), lunch at the American Girl store - and then she also gets to pick one accessory for her doll, jewelry - all costume obviously, but she loves it all (a charm bracelet and some necklaces), nail polish. That's all I can remember right now. She's also really into little keychains that she can attach to her backpack for school. And fun pillows and blankets for her room (with fun designs, peace symbols, that sort of thing). Anyway, these are the things MY 11 year old likes. Hopefully that helps a bit. I'm sure she'll be happy to receive any type of care package from you. I know my daughter LOVES getting mail and packages! I hope she heals quickly.

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K.P.

answers from Seattle on

This is so sad! No, I dont think flowers are a good gift. There are ways you can order them but I think they would be a waste.

What about stuffed animals for comfort? Or movies she can watch if she has to stay in bed. Good books things like that. Anything to make her more comfortable.

I hope for the best for this poor girl and her family. It is nice of you to think of them in this time.

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J.B.

answers from Phoenix on

I saw this on QVC the other day and when I read your note I thought it would be perfect. It is a bracelet maker with all the stuff. They can send this as a gift with a note enclosed. I have order from them several times.

http://www.qvc.com/My-Friendship-Bracelet-Maker-Kit-w-112...$

If the link doesn't work just go to www.qvc.com and in the search box type My Friendship Bracelet Maker

They have other craft items that she could make as well. I also went to Amazon and searched bracelet maker, they have a few to choose from as well as the My Friendship Bracelet Maker. This company also makes a My Barrette Maker too. I saw this bracelet on Amazon which was really cool too.

http://www.amazon.com/Loopdedoo-Kit-Making-Twisted-Access...

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S.W.

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I think a sick 11 year-old girl would like flowers, and there are several online places that will deliver them for you, and allow payment through a credit card.

http://www.proflowers.com/teddy-bears-gifts-plu?ref=organ...

I found these to be very cute and appropriate for a girl that age. I have a 10 year-old daughter.

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