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I don't get any of this. here is your post....
My husband went to visit his family in another state to babysit his 9 years old granddaughter.
* She's NOT your grand daughter as well?
* Why did he go alone?
There is pool in backyard, (so a lots of physical interaction there already).
* what do you mean by "physical interaction"?
This is nicely set comfortable single family house with bedrooms for everyone plus guest room.
* okay - what does this have to do with anything?
The night before family gets back, she, 9 years old girl asking her grandfather to sleep with her in the fort she build. It was short text from my husband to inform me he will sleep with her in "fort she build". After that his phone was off.
* you don't trust your husband with a child?
* Why did he turn his phone off?
Next morning my husband called me and his voice was full of guild and sound like not himself.
* what is "guild"? you mean GUILT? Did you ASK him about the night?
* did you automatically conclude something bad happened?
* did you accuse?
* could it be that he slept on the ground and was TIRED?
This girl was born from high school first love of her mother and she did not know her biological father, till couple of years ago.
* so this girl is his daughter's daughter?
* this daughter is NOT your child - you are the step mother and don't care enough to call her your step-daughter and/or family?
There is distant relationship between them.
* A distant relationship between WHO??? Your husband and his daughter? That seems odd if she asked him to come out and care for her daughter when they were out of town...
She was adapted by her mother husband and they have 2 years of old baby boy now.
* You mean she was ADOPTED - meaning the 9 year old girl was adopted by her mother's husband? Does SHE know he adopted her?
Being a princess, she became a nanny.
* What does being a princess have to do with being a nanny?
What exactly is your concern here?
What is your question?
As you can see - I have more questions than answers.