4 1/2 Mo. Need Help Wth Birth Mother, Health for Myself and My Dtr.

Updated on August 06, 2009
X.E. asks from West Covina, CA
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i tried to call churches but all priest are on vacation. one priest told me there's nothing too do. i've talked to my birth mther to feed dtr. healthy food fm grocery store but unwilling. i went to hospitol for problems myself and all it comes down to is me eating. i've asked her to buy food at the store but again says no. i have not eaten yet today and i'm straving. i need to take my prenatals and pills subscribe by doc. but i need food with it. i'm off of work til aug. i have no money and just want to eat better. i don't qualify for aid either they told me. at the same time i don't have trasportation cuz i was in a car accident b-4 the preganancy and my car is here at birth mothers house waiting to be fix by my machanic. i don't feel like she my mother anymore cause no matter what i ask for she says no. i desperately need help and i don't know anymore nor have any other options. i need to eat for my sake and my baby and also my dtr. needs to eats healthy, and just this car done. i cant hurry him up on that cause its for free! he would be doing it on his own time. i would like it to be done by the time i go back to work but at the same time i'm dealing with everything else. i don't know what elese to do. im at wits end here. please someone anyone please help me. my birth mother does not know im expecting. im affraid to tell her because of what she'll say and do. she did a lot and said a lot to me when i was expecting with my dtr. i just dont want to here it or her yell at me. i don't need that either. please help me with anything really. xomara monique echiribel.

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K.L.

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I was wondering if you have perhaps thought about adoption. i am a little confused by your question (are you adopted yourself) so maybe it is time for some soul searching to see if you really can take care of another child. Adoption has changed so much just in the last 10 years i have known many families who have adopted and a number of birth mothers one being my sister. it is a wonderful opportunity to bring joy to a family you have selected and in many cases the adoptions are open so the child has an opportunity to get to know you. you are able to set many of the conditions with what you feel comfortable with. This option can help provide you food and shelter and medical care during your pregnancy to ensure a healthy birth.
it is just a suggestion but it sounds like you are already overwhelmed with the child you have.
god bless

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C.T.

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Wow you have a lot going on right now! Im not sure I quite understand why you dont qualify for help, you are not working, so you should qualify for something. Your children and you need to eat and if someone, such as your mother, is withholding food from you, that is wrong. That is a sad description of a mother. Who would do that? I am soo sorry. The best thing I can say is go next door to a neighbor and ask them for help. Where is the father? Is he still around? You have 2 children and you need to start being a little more responsible. I know you are on here asking for help, but you really to think beyond just a computer for the sake of everyone involved. There's absolutely NO food in the house? How does your mother eat? Call social services.

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H.S.

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Dear X.,
I see you are in West Covina. Are you in an apartment or house? How do you pay for that? I was thinking, if you have no other place for help and need food you might want to contact New Life Beginnings. It is an organization that takes in pregnant women and battered mothers and helps them learn job skills and cares for them until they can go out on there own. It is in Long Beach, but if you are interested, you could contact them and I would be willing to take you there. Their address and telephone number is:

New Life Beginnings
835 E 6th St
Long Beach, CA 90802-1502
###-###-####

You do need to eat correctly for the "baby-to-be". Let me know if I can help you this way.
H.

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S.S.

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Call Cory's Kitchen, they are in Irwindale right next to West Covina. The number is ###-###-#### and they will help with food, clothes and other things.
God Bless

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M.S.

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Hi:

Here is the website for Comprehensive Emergency Food Resources. You will find advice, phone numbers, etc. to help you out.

http://www.211oc.org/docs/2008Guide.pdf

Best wishes,

M.

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M.C.

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I see that you are from West Covina. I only know a few resources in Pasadena and I am not sure if you can get here. Every Wednesday, Fuller Seminary (located at the intersection of Walnut Ave. and Los Robles Ave. in Pasadena) gives food for free to people in the community that have less resources. Also, you might want to contact Door of Hope which is an organization that provides transitional housing and helps families in need. I am sure they would be at least able to direct you to some resources. The phone number is ###-###-#### and the website www.doorofhope.us. Good luck with everything!

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D.K.

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please you need to call social services or go to a food center or free food distribution. I am sorry to hear of your problem I will pray for you but if things get really bad please please call the police or social services:)

good luck please stay in touch and let us know whats up.
p.s. also you can call 211 and get more resources for you!

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