Good Morning Rae,
Little ones are Masters at throwing a cog into that smooth turning wheel...lol They all Change, some days from one minute to the next. Makes it a challenge for sure.
Who did your little one stay with while you & hubby were away? Daycare provider, Gr Mama & Gr papa? Did the children stay away from your home with others or did someone stay in your home with them? Did they stick to your schedule? There can be a lot of things that could add to your dilemma. For us even though we try to follow what Mom & Dad want for the boys, it's not always the way it turns out. For our other 3 gr kids, It's up to us as we had been * bascially* total caregivers and sat the example for them for alot of their toddler time. (they lived with us) mom & dad too UGH..lol
We make sure there are phone calls when something good happens. Example: Mama I poo pooed in the potty!! Daddy I helped Nana vac up Zanes cheerooos mess!
Give your little one a little time and she will probably return to her former way of doing things. Corbin will be 4 next month and some days he crashes at nap time and other times he lays in there and talks to his woobie. He goes to bed at home around 8. Usually trys the I gotta potty, or can I have more hugs routine.. lol SOMETIMES grrrr Mama gives in and lets him watch a Video while he goes to sleep. I think I finally am getting through to them this is not a good plan or idea. He is very demanding the next morning when this happens. He is overly tired and grumpy.
I told our DIL she could handle " Shame on you mama you hurt my feelings" for a minute as she kissed him goodnight and tucked him in. Shut the door and leave.
Thats what I do here when he gets demanding about watching cartoons at nap time. LOL
Give your little one time and lots of WOW what a big girl you are. I bet you feel so much better now after your nice nap.
If at all possible when your away make sure you call and talk to her often.
God Bless you, what a Great mama you are for wanting to help your sweet princess get through the time away.
K. Nana of 5
PS I will have Corbin & Zane the end of Mar while mom goes to NC for Business. This will be Zanes first time without mom. He is 16 months now. Dad ( our son) will come for dinner and bedtime tuck ins, but he is not good in total care...lol He can have a panic attack and gets really short tempered.. :)) It is humerous. Gen had eye surgery last yr, was either that or eventually go blind. She had the monitor on to hear the baby. He woke up and gen laid there thinking maybe he will go back to sleep.. Then as she realized that wasn't happening she heard Drew go in. Then she heard OH YUCK Zane. your momma would be so Proud of me. gag gag gag...lol