B.:
I do not have endometriosis, but they thought I did because of my painful periods. I was told birth control would help - no such luck. Had the laparoscopy to determine I didn't have it, and I was told that might help. No luck again. Then I was told childbirth would likely help. After 2 kids, my periods are more painful than ever and that is even with being on birth control. I hate to go off birth control for fear of longer, stronger periods too. I think my only hope now is menopause or getting a hysterectomy. I take Darvocet each month for my period, along with muscle relaxers. I had one doc suggest a procedure called "LUNA" but I could not find it anywhere online. It is where they laser a nerve that runs from the back of the uterus to the spine; about 80% of women have relief and no cramps. I am convinced I would be one of the 20% with continued pain. I say if I'm going to do surgery, I should just take it all out.
I know that's not very helpful, but I do want you to know you are not alone. I am convinced if men had periods and cramps, they would have found a way to eliminate them altogether! Good luck to you and I hope you can find some relief. Keep talking to the doctors until someone hears you and really listens. I will go in again early Nov. and try to find a way to manage the periods more productively, but at least I get a little relief with the meds.