A.T.
I know these are a bit pricey, but try the jarred cut up baby veggies for toddlers by Gerber (I think). We found that the kids really liked those because the size, shape and slipperiness was right for the girls when they were learning to eat table food. For some reason the regular foods cut up didn't work as well. For example, cut up adult food carrots were too hard to pick up, but the ones specially made for toddlers were easy. Same with green beans-- adult ones or regular canned ones cut up fell apart when the girls tried to pick them up but the special made ones didn't. We found that true even more so with the fruit. Canned peaches just shot out of the kids fingers but they were able to pick up the ones made for toddlers. After a while once the kids confidence built and dexterity increased we switched to regular food. Goof luck!!