I'm of the belief, "Don't be scared - be prepared." I relate this thinking to most "issues" in my life. Of course, this is just a personal preference or personality trait - whatever you want to call it ;-)
I was 37 yrs old when I was pregnant with my 2nd child. All seemed healthy at my checkups/ultrasounds, etc....and my husband & I thought long and hard about doing the amnio not only because of the risks involved, but also because of what the "answer" might be. It could be devastating - or not. It could crush our dreams of a healthy child - or not. It could risk a perfectly healthy pregnancy - or not.
What helped us to make the decision was this, "What would we do if we found out that our child would have Down's Syndrome or some other genetic condition?"
Would be abort? Would we put the child up for adoption? Would we continue on as planned & raise this child ourselves no matter the cost or stress? We decided to have the test done....
Since I knew that I would have to lay in bed for *at least* 24 hrs afterwards, I made sure to clean our bed sheets, put nicely scented candles in our room, and went to the grocery store to stock up on comfort foods.
The test itself can be stressful (if you are inclined to stress, as I am), but thankfully, it is only mildly uncomfortable and is over in about 1 minute. In fact, my biggest worry was that I would jerk, jump, move, burp, or sneeze when they inserted the needle and as such, mess up the entire process for ALL involved - in a bad way. However, I reminded myself that "these people are professionals and they do this ALL the time....I'm only nervous because this is MY first time." To keep myself in check, I made sure to bring two things with me that keep me calm - my husband and my Ipod w/soothing music.
The results were fine & we had a healthy baby girl, but even if the results were not that, I would do it again. Better to know & be prepared for what lies ahead. Life is full of so many uncertainties and we need to keep in mind that everything has risk attached to it....but, if it's safe over-all, why not know & be ready with a plan?
Good luck to ya, Mama! :-)