D.G.
Dearest A.,
We haven't gone through the exact thing as you're going through, but I just wanted to send you a note of hope. When I was only 12 weeks pregnant with my last daughter, I had a sonogram that showed that my baby had a bubble behind her head. We went to a specialist and it was confirmed that she had a bubble filled with fluid on the back of her tiny head. I was told to get a Placental Biopsy which revealed that my baby had Turner's Syndrome. The doctor and specialist spoke and decided I should get an abortion, assuring me that my baby would be born with severe birth defects. My husband and I read up on Turner's and decided not to follow the advice of either doctor (nor of a third doctor, the geneticist). Six months later, we had our little Tessa and she was born with only one birth defect that not many people even notice at first glance. We still have a long way to go as Tessa will have to undergo treatments once she reaches puberty, but we know that we made the right decision and we're willing to do whatever it takes to help our daughter along the way.
If you can, find a pediatric specialist and get more tests done. With what is available in the medical field today, I'm sure something can be done. I don't know much about kidneys, but I hope my story will give you strength and hope.
In the meantime, I'll be praying for you and your daughter.
Much love,
D.