Star Wars Ban
Can video games and movies affect the moods and or behavior of our kids?
Our five year old, Preston, has gotten into Star Wars, Teenaged Mutant Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers this year. Our older two boys, ages nine and seven, never got into these shows, but for whatever reason, Preston became obsessed with them. We really didn’t have a problem with this, in fact, my husband and I both LOVED Star Wars when we were kids.
It wasn’t until recently that we started to see a change in Preston. It started with the light saber he got for Christmas. He would sit and watch his favorite Star Wars movie while holding onto it, or put his light saber beside him as he played his Star Wars game on Xbox. It was actually cute…at first.
Before we knew it, though, he was chasing his little sister around the house, waving his light saber and yelling, “I’m going to cut your head off and then your arms and legs!”
Nice.
It got worse as he watched the Power Rangers fight or the Ninja Turtles karate chop their way though an episode. Preston started hitting and fighting all of us. He and his little sister have always fought, but this was different. He was showing aggression that we hadn’t seen in any of the kids before.
We ended up taking his light saber, video game and movies away, and only let him watch TV if it was “Little Bear,” “Franklin,” or “Mickey Mouse Clubhouse,” because…well…he’s FIVE.
This situation reminded me of a study I learned about in a child psychology class, called the “Bobo Doll Experiment.” In a nutshell, a number of kids were divided into three groups. One watched a series of aggressive behavior towards a blow up punching bag type doll named “Bobo,” while another group watched non-aggressive behavior towards the doll. The third group was a control group with no exposure whatsoever.
The results indicated that the group of children who watched the doll being hit and kicked, repeated the behavior when placed in a room with their own Bobo doll.
(Watch it here)
There are those who wholeheartedly agree with this study, and those who don’t.
All I can think is that millions, if not billions, of dollars are spent each year on advertising and commercials to get us to think one way or act another. The same goes for the film and TV industries. I know I feel very differently exiting a chick flick or romantic comedy than one of my husband’s favorite action packed movies. There must be some influence in there somewhere…simply by what we’re watching.
I guess that the bottom line is Preston is very young. His little five year old mind is going to have more difficulty processing the fight scenes between Luke Skywalker and Darth Vader, as cool as they may be. When he’s a few years older, we’ll see how it goes.
As for now, we’re pulling things back ‘old school,’ and have actually seen a difference in his behavior. He’s lost his aggressive demeanor.
We’re not opposed to him running around the house with his light saber someday. I guess we’re just going to have to wait until he’s old enough to understand and be able to handle the responsibilities of a Jedi Knight.
Until then, we are not going to Force anything .
Bea lives in North Carolina with her husband Adam and children Christian, Ethan, Preston, and Lauren Elizabeth. Read more on her blog, Peanut Butter Hair.
