Photo by: Ruth David

From Preschool to Presidents: A DC Child Portrait Photographer's Adventures in Obama-Land

by Ruthi David
Photo by: Ruth David

Yes, I am a child portrait photographer by trade. And yes, I have also been photographing the President of the United States on a quasi-regular basis since early 2007. Looking back on it, I realize that my story is nearly laughably unlikely.

I am a suburban house-wife living in the Northern VA suburbs of Washington, DC. I run a successful child portraiture business, scheduling my part-time work around my children’s school and sports schedules. I photograph babies, children, families, couples and high school seniors. Sometimes I do a bit of commercial or editorial work or photograph a small wedding or a swanky birthday party.

My life is a good one, but not an unusual one. I shoot a couple of sessions a week, drive to preschool, carpool to swim team, swap childcare with the neighbors, and volunteer in the classroom. I do my proofing and my office work at night, when the kiddos are in bed. I stress over the fact that I don’t always have the balance quite down. I sometimes go to bed and leave dirty dishes in the sink or neglect to vacuum all the dog hair off the carpet. And occasionally, I photograph President Obama.

It was never something I planned. I was an Obama-follower from way back (if by “way back” you can count 2004). When Obama announced his bid for the Democratic nomination, two girlfriends and I drove ourselves downtown and walked into the small unobtrusive campaign office and asked how we could help. You have to understand – in the very beginning, there were no crowds. There were no street closures, no bomb-sniffing dogs, and next to no entourage.

In the very beginning, there was a small modest finance office staffed by a few law students on hiatus, and we were the first ones to show up on their doorstep. We helped on the weekends by moving boxes, answering phones, and providing a DC insider’s knowledge as to where to find DJs, caterers, and florists. As winter turned to spring, the office began to host luncheons and dinner fundraisers for our candidate. There was a buzz in the city, and the feeling that things were about to start happening. And they did. For all of us as a campaign, and for each of us in our own way. My career turned on a dime one day in the summer of 2007 when a staffer casually asked “If you are a photographer, why aren’t you photographing our events?” Fast forward a week, and I found myself in a living room in Maryland with a line of 150 Obama supporters and the Senator himself. And thus began my sideline as a photoline and event photographer for the Mid-Atlantic Finance Committee of Obama for America.

This was a journey that traversed more than two years of political campaign adventures. I traveled to events throughout the Mid-Atlantic region – always photographing. Sometimes I took my older kids (9 and 7) with me, chalking up the missed school days to life experience. In between, I came home, drove carpool, went to swim team, and volunteered in the classroom. I continued to photograph children and families, and found that for the most part, my clients were happy for me – whether they be Republicans or Democrats. They all seemed to feel that this was a movement. It was history in the making. It was a feel-good moment. And gosh-darn it, their family photographer was documenting it.

As time progressed, the crowds came. The street closures and bomb-dogs came. The entourage grew into a motorcade with flashing lights. I grew used to having my equipment checked by Secret Service at each event. I grew used to lock downs in secured areas, and used to being cordoned off in small spaces with the man who Might Be President. I grew used to the swooning, screaming, teary-eyed masses just wanting to catch a glimpse of our candidate. I grew used to Bon Jovis and Caroline Kennedys at parties and in hotel ballrooms. I grew used to it, didn’t I? No I didn’t. Not really. If I stopped and thought about it, really thought about it, it veered off into the realm of the surreal. The truly unbelievable.

Because 80% of the time I was still a suburban mom from the suburbs running a child portraiture business and shuttling my children to school and sports. And I was standing where millions of people wanted to stand. Doing the thing I loved doing the most. For a Presidential candidate that for years sat squarely at the top of my list of “People I Would Most Like to Meet”. For me, the truly unthinkable goal has been attained. I will probably never top the experience, professionally or personally.

I continue to do some work in the political arena. I have photographed the President on several occasions since the inauguration. I have friendships forged on the campaign trail that I hope will last for years to come, and professional connections that I couldn’t possibly have otherwise made. I value every second I spent documenting what was such a magical and historical journey. And I still have my beloved children’s portrait business.

Ms. David is an award-winning, nationally published portrait and event photographer serving the DC Metro area and Mid-Atlantic region. Her portrait work has been seen in national publications, and was selected for inclusion in the Random House coffee table collection The Big Book of Babies. She is a member of PPA, ASMP, and IROCP. Starting in 2009, she will be the chapter director for the DC chapter of Flashes of Hope, a nonprofit organization providing in-hospital portraiture for seriously ill children and their families. Ruthi’s other sites are rdavideventphotography and rdavidphotography

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11 Comments

It's too bad you werent the one that got to take the "official" Obama family portrait. The one Annie L took was atrocious with chopped limbs, no depth of field, poor horizon.. ugh. Such a shame. Best of luck to you.. and hopefully, the Obama's will become part of your childrens portraiture clientele!

Beautiful Work!!

This was a great feel good story that made me proud to live in this country where so many opportunities exist. Thanks. Sami W.

Ruthi - I'm so super proud of you! You are such a beautiful photographer and a wonderful, sweet person. I'm proud to be your colleague in the photography industry!

Joy Vertz, Shoot the Moon Photography

All I can really say is WOW!

Ms. David, I enjoyed your story. Thanks so much!

Ms. Davis: I loved reading this article. I, too, have been a suburban housewife and mother (of six) with a small business painting portraits (primarily of children)in between all the kids activities. I started my business when my youngest was four and he graduated last year. I've opened a second studio at The Workhouse Arts Center my portrait painting schedule is busier than ever. Since I paint primarily from photographs, I'm always eager to connect with photographers...

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How amazing and what a great time you have experienced and so have your children. I agree the networking experience is great and I wish you continued success.

You do beautiful portraits and wonderful photo work. I love taking photos too, but I am not a professional, something I would love to learn how to do. I have always heard make money doing something you love to do, and this would be it for me. I will never do it though , but am so proud of you, great job. I hope you have your parents still to let you know Good Job" If not I am sorry, but I will say it from me to you "Wonderful, Great Job"

Continue much sucess.

Lucy

This is the kind of Horatio Alger story that makes America the special place it is. Remember the film, "Mr. Smith Goes to Washington"? Ruthi's story parallels it...she's a self-proclaimed ordinary housewife who through one twist of fate after another finds herself invited to photograph the President. It gives you hope that in small ways, each of us can make contributions to life and to society. I admire her for pulling her children out of school to have such unique enriching experiences...

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I love your photographs. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us, a beautifully written window into your life.

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