Photo by: This Vintage Chica

A Deeper Shade of Green

Photo by: This Vintage Chica

I love the little things–towels warm from the dryer, new socks, sitting down to drink a cup of coffee…uninterrupted, a no frizz hair day, and when my husband says, “Wow, you look so skinny in those pants!” It’s the little things that not only put a spring in our step and a smile on our faces, but they are inherently necessary. Just ask me on any given Monday night when I haven’t thawed anything for dinner, and my husband calls and says he’s coming home early with a pizza and a bottle of wine! Without the little things, I’m certain we’d all lead a joyless existence.

How does that theory hold up with being environmentally conscious? How do the little things we do each day contribute to saving our planet? Are we even making a dent in leaving smaller, perhaps non existent carbon foot prints on the planet?

We recycle our cardboard, glass, and aluminum. We shut the water off when we brush our teeth. We don’t water our grass. We don’t buy bottled water, instead we opt to reuse a more durable water bottle everyday. We don’t make pointless trips to the mall. But, really, in the big scheme of things, are my actions and the actions of my family making any difference? I’m starting to wonder.

I’m starting to wonder, too, if our nation needs to collectively consider a “new normal.” I’m not really wondering, actually. I know we do. Being wasteful with a conscience is no longer acceptable to me. Empty plastic grocery bags litter my garage floor, and my guilt over it will, sadly, not save the planet.

Although I don’t regret all the little things we do as a family to reuse, recycle, and reduce, I do feel it will take a drastic overhaul of our entire infrastructure to ensure our planet’s longevity for our posterity. I fear, however, that what many want is for scientists to devise a cheaper, less oil dependent way for us to live in the wasteful, extravagant, gluttonous manner to which we are accustomed. What are we teaching our children, if anything, by utilizing only feel good measures that require little effort or sacrifice. Recycling cardboard and shutting off lights are easy ways to teach your kids to be environmentally responsible, but anything above and beyond that may prove unsustainable as soon as somebody wants a new pair of shoes or the latest iJunk technology. And what happens when either are purchased? The old one gets thrown out, of course! According to Anne Leonard, the author of The Story of Stuff: How Our Obsession With Stuff is Trashing the Planet, Our Communities, and our Health–and a Vision for Change, 99% of the stuff we buy will get thrown away within six months of our purchasing it! This tells me that not only do we need an entirely new infrastructure, but also a different mindset in regards to how we view our “things.” Cul de sacs, subdivisions, and arbitrary zoning laws would of course need to be re-evaluated for their necessity and contribution to the demise of the concept of a village type community. Until then, I’m not suggesting anyone merely give up use of their cars; we still have to live, function, and travel within our cities and communities.

How many of us would be willing to relocate our jobs closer to home in order to save fuel and prolong inevitable wear and tear on our cars resulting in the purchase of a new one? What if that job meant a pay cut?

Would any of us downsize our homes to lower utility costs and energy consumption? Would you forgo air conditioning altogether and search for alternatives to beat the sweltering summer heat? Would any anyone consider not upgrading his or her phone when a newer one appears on the market?

I haven’t even mentioned supporting our local economies and farmer’s markets. What would it take for us to stop buying from the large grocery chains that enable us to rely on fish from Chile or produce from China? Consider the fuel that could be saved if none of this stuff was ever transported via airplane and tractor trailers. Would any of us be willing to eat only local, in season produce?

I propose a challenge to all of you: For the next year, purchase nothing you DON’T need. Food, of course, is an exception. Wear shoes and clothes you wore last year–I think I just heard a collective gasp! Use the same cookware, phones, glassware, bath towels, and bed sheets and pillows. Replace possessions only when the old ones basically disintegrate and require replacement. Imagine the fuel saved both in our mindless trips to the mall and in transporting those cheaply made goods to stock our stores. Talk about reducing oil dependency! Imagine the empty highways that used to be congested with impatient shoppers, commuters, and truck drivers! Imagine what you could do with the time you’d not be spending wandering the malls and warehouse grocery stores! Imagine what we could really teach our children about conservation!

Sadly, however, the feel good measures will win out. The only way such a mind shift could occur is if a national catastrophe necessitated it. I fear we will be content with being wasteful with a conscience for some time to come.

But the seed is planted, and it’s our responsibility to cultivate it. Perhaps, as Lewis Hyde, a writer and social critic said of writers Wendell Berry and Wes Jackson, “…their writing is an effort of the periphery to be heard by the center.” Berry makes note of Hyde’s astute observation in his book, The Way of Ignorance, and notes that we cannot learn or come to any meaningful realization without first being ignorant. My views may be of the periphery, too, and I can only hope they find their way to our wasteful and consumer driven center. What can we all do collectively, consistently, and dramatically to make an impact? How do we realize our resources, regardless of what the advertising industry tell us, are not infinite. It is absurd to believe otherwise. What can we do to become a deeper shade of green?

Mary never thought she’d be a mom or a writer/blogger, and now she can’t imagine her life as neither! Mary enjoys reading the posts on Mamapedia because according to her, “We Mamas have so much to learn from each other.” Mary finds the most amazing life lessons in everyday actions and observations… and the humor that can be gained from both is limitless!

Like This Article

Like Mamapedia

Learn From Moms Like You

Get answers, tips, deals, and amazing advice from other Moms.

26 Comments

Loved this blog! So true- and for many of us, with the economy the way it has been the last few years we may have been forced into being more 'green'. Some things you mentioned that our family has started doing, and some you didn't: Supporting local farmers- at farmers markets AND those selling their garden surplus on the side of the road (GREAT deals). I pretty much have learned to buy better quality clothes, and wear them till they are no longer wearable (and I have learned to mend)...

See entire comment

I fully agree. I think if people would simply start living within their means that we'd make a huge leap toward conservation! We've been fortunate not to have been impacted by job loss, or the disintegration of our savings through stock investments, but budget is still THE consderation in my house when it comes to purchases...

See entire comment

I disagree. Due to the current economic conditions my family has for years been completing your challenge easily. The exceptions: The farmer's market. Unfortunately I do not believe they accept state benefit cards. Also, relocating or changing jobs. We are living somewhere where rent is cheap, and the local economy is not easily producing a plethora of careers that I can just "switch" to. Lower pay or not. I have mouths to feed, and I suspect you do too...

See entire comment

I wholeheartedly believe in living within one's means and I love growing a garden and the farmer's markets, but I also feel that compared to other countries, we are the cleanest. Yes, the little things like not littering, conservation, etc. matter, but if you've ever traveled to other countries, especially those of the heavily industrial variety, you know that the air quality is so poor, you feel like you've caught a cold the entire stay.

Brooke, part of the reason our air quality is cleanest is because the products WE buy are coming from those factories overseas. It is an added expense to adhere to our air quality standards, so businesses ship the factory work elsewhere. We're still the ones buying the products, however. WE are the ones still contributing to the air quality problem because of our insatiable demands.

We exist on this planet and are an extraordinary species. Our cerebral abilities and instincts are such a spectacular wonder. As we continually advance, we should remember that we are doing it for a greater good, and will always be creating, learning, exploring, and searching for the meaning of life.

Our First World economy is unsustainable -- not all the world can live as we do. Capitalism is built on the notion that not everyone gets 100%, and through more work/skill/smarts/luck, you either have or have not. Socialism is unsustainable at this time, too. Been living the tenants of our Grandparents many years (before 2008!) -- don't waste, reuse/repurpose/fix -- because it costs less of what I lack:)

Ah, so true. But how do we account for the undeniable fact that the US economy would crash and burn (and I don't mean sit in the doldrums, as it's doing now) without our mindless buying buying buying.

The house of cards they call our economic infrastructure is based in good (or bad) part on the fact that Americans look at everything as disposable...

See entire comment

Great article! I also propose that writing our local, state, and national governments and tell them how we feel. Really if the laws don't change we will have a long and slow road to change. Yes change can and will occur with our buying power choices, but there is so much more to the environmental changes than just stuff being produced,bought and trashed...

See entire comment

I think all the suggestions here are worthy and I follow them to the best of my ability and then some, such as buying/picking/growing and freezing/canning local food while it is in season so that we can eat off it through the winter.

However, what I really struggle with right now is the impact of having multiple children on the earth's resources. I feel like this is a taboo subject because our culture values individualism so much...

See entire comment

Great article! Yes I think it all has to start with individual consumerism. I know I could do better (always fail to remember reusable grocery bags!). I've seen quite a few articles countering the materialist basis of our society and think it is great the dialogue is out there b/c in reality so much is about keeping up with the Jones. So we need to eradicate the Jone's and have the new model to strive for a sustainable one.

YES!!! Sometimes I go to even more drastic measures and wonder if it is time we (me and my family) pack up our basic belongings, live in a teepee or build a shack somewhere with land, start an organic garden and live cooperatively off the land. It not only sounds like a healthy choice for the planet but a healthy choice for us. Unfortunately we are locked in the fear of losing everything we have worked so hard for...

See entire comment

I recently watched a movie called "Objectified" one of the points was that the market creates the desires and pull for new things. Many people's jobs both locally and internationally depend on this process. However both industrial designers and consumers need to press the market into making green decisions. If the cradle to grave time for a product is 3 months then it should biodegrade in as much time. Even something like a cell phone could potentially be made of friendlier elements...

See entire comment

Thank you for sharing this essay, I enjoyed it and I am going to share it with others on my personal FB Wall and on the Education Now! Facebook Page. Great expression, and I think you put into words what many of us are thinking and feeling. Not just about the environment and our responsibility to the future of all of life, but about being a mom.

What an absurd train of thought! It's so sad to see how many people have swallowed the whole hook and sinker of the "carbon footprint" myth...

See entire comment

Leave a Comment

Required
Required (will not be published)
Required (to prove you're human)
Comments are moderated and generally will be posted if they are on topic and not abusive
For Updates and Special Promotions
Follow Us
Want to become a contributor?
Want to become a contributor?

If you'd like to contribute to the Wisdom of Moms on Mamapedia, please sign up here to learn more: Sign Up

Recent Voices Posts

See all