Fertility Planning: Toddler, Teddy Bears

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Is This Weird? How to Handle This? Any Adopting/adopted Moms Out There.

My sister in law called me today and asked if I thought it would be weird to throw her a baby shower when she was not expecting. She has been trying fertility treatments for a long time and I guess she has just given up and they are going to try adoption. She said that it was recommended to her to have a baby shower asap so she would have all she needed before the homestudy so she is more likely to be approved. I am all for giving her a shower but it does seem weird to me to have a shower before she is even approved... what if they are not...