M.F.
I hope by now you have made an appointment, if not do so. You need not worry to add to all that has happened. I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. You may want to consider taking it easy as much as possible on yourself, if possible get extra naps and eat. Try to take extra care and if someone offers to make something or take on some of your load let them and don't worry about it, it really makes folks feel better to help if they can.
I sure hope you have made a few new friends in your moving here or neighbors and have some type of support system, I know you can always count on the ladies on this website to offer encouragement and advise. My thoughts are with you and take care. Please let us know how you are doing.