B.C.
Hey T. -- I realize you've "closed" this already, but I originally responded to you and my network went down when I tried to send! I saved my response, and then forgot to resubmit. So here you go :)
So I'm in a similar situation. I (so far) have been very blessed. I somehow talked my company into letting me work from home part-time after I had my child. But I didn't know what I was going to do if they had said no (they did say no at first though! Somehow it turned into yes with a trial period). I'm a software developer, in case you were wondering. I work 24 hours a week from my home and I care for my bebe full time. My husband is a full-time student (16 hours a day), so he's not around much! It's challenging, but rewarding. I think this is harder than going to an office. And that 24 hours a week can be DIFFICULT for me to do. It's worth it though! I have flexibility, and I do get paid well :) And I get to stay home with my baby girl.
Are you currently employed? Do you do something that you could do from home? Is that something you could approach your boss with? If your current job doesn't lend itself to that, is there something you could propose to your employer that you could do from home?
A friend of mine worked out with her employer to change her job after her baby was born. She found something the company needed done, that she could do at home. She still goes to the office a few hours a week, but it's less.
There is a site I found out about called tentilltwo.com. It's definitely legit. Unfortunately, there aren't any listings in our area yet, but maybe in the future!
Careers that are compatible (other than product-based businesses) tend to be things that require a computer and little or no client time (on your part anyway). I know people who are accountants and do that from home. Party planners (little face time with clients, more phone), software developers (like me!), paralegals... and they all get paid well! Some have less flexibility than others, that would depend on your company and clients.
Here's a book I found: http://www.atlasbooks.com/marktplc/rr01460.htm. I haven't read it, I just did some searching just now :-) Maybe it or something similar is at the library?