Hi M.,
A big part of this is if your daughter has teeth, and how many. My son is 11 months old, and has 2 teeth. He was late to get teeth, and some of my relatives were kind of going crazy because we were still feeding him pureed food. I didn't stop pureeing his food until he got teeth.
Now, he basically eats whatever we're eating. His breakfast is fruit, usually a banana, pineapple, or mandarin oranges. His lunch is often leftovers from our supper, stuff like shredded chicken meat, macaroni & cheese, or some sort of hotdish or soup. Supper is the same, and then he gets fruit again before bed. He's totally off of formula; he drinks goat's milk, soy milk, and white grape juice.
I would say that oatmeal & fruit is fine for breakfast, but I would start being adventurous with her other meals. IMHO, baby food is a marketing ploy and price-wise, a rip-off. ;-) It's good that you are giving her whatever you are eating, but I don't know what you mean by she's not "making a meal of it"... "Normal" food is a lot more filling than baby cereal, so she's not going to each as much table food as you might think. Also, babies that age will eat when they're hungry and stop when they're full. If you're worried about her intake, feed her more frequent, smaller meals. Also, the only meal my son eats with us is breakfast; we watch him, not the clock, for signs that he's hungry.
Good luck!