I have a 7 year old boy who has been raised thus far in a very Waldorf environment; no video games, and very little screen time of any sort and this year he started 1st grade. Suddenly we were surrounded by media exposure from all his friends and even every child he'd meet on trips, airplane rides, the park, etc. So, I agreed to get him a DS for Xmas. I have not found any educational games; he wouldn't want those anyways I imagine, but the Mario Cart game is pretty fun (I even play it sometimes). His favorite is the Star Wars lego and I've had to just accept thats where his interests are and since its legos its not so violent seeming. I have pretty firm agreements surrounding it. Only 30 minutes a day on non-school days. It is working out fine and despite my misgivings I haven't noticed anything that makes me question my decision. He feels more connected to the kids he meets too, since he is able to communicate about what they are into. My understanding of the PSP though is that the games are geared towards older kids or even adults and it allows internet access, so I stayed away from the PSP. Our friends chose the Wii because there are so many active games for it (yoga, tennis, bowling, etc) , but its not handheld or appropriate for car rides. Good luck and I guess we are all being indoctrinated into the tech world with our kids.