I have had 2 miscarriages, both of which I ended up having a D&C for. After the first D&C it took 6 weeks before I got a period and I conceived my first baby 5 months after that. After the second D&C, it again took about 6 weeks to get a period and I'm on my 3rd month of trying to conceive. I'm really hoping I can be pregnant again before my original due date (April) but it will all come with time. As for the cramping and spotting you've been having, I was told after my D&Cs that if the bleeding and spotting hadn't stopped by 14 days, I should call to come in for an appointment; so in your case, I would consider going back to the doctor to make sure everything is ok. I am so sorry for your loss, I can relate and know somewhat what you are going through. My last miscarriage was twins. What always helps me is to think that if I hadn't had my first miscarriage, I wouldn't have my current son- and he is the most precious thing in the world and I can't imagine my life without him now. Good luck to you, feel free to write me if you have questions or just need to chat.