T.S.
Your body will regulate. I know it's rough, but it's only been two weeks.
If you feel you have a clogged duct, put baby to nurse on that side FIRST when she's very hungry and she should be able to open it back up. If that doesn't help, it's okay to pump a bit on that side.
If your breasts are getting too full to the point of being painful, go ahead and pump. When I was a new mom, DS was nursing about like your DD, and my body was producing like crazy. I was so afraid to pump, lest my body produce even MORE milk, but the paid got to be unbearable (I was engorged) and I finally gave in. Guess what? Once I got them good and empty (DS never emptied them completely), they started to regulate more normally and I was SOOOOO much more comfortable because I was just holding the 2 hours of supply on top of EMPTY breasts rather than 2 hours on top of FULL.
Yes, you want your supply to regulate, but the immense relief you'll get from clearing that duct (and relieving a bit of the pressure) will be worth the slight confusion to your body about demand!
HTH
T.