Dear M.,
I think as time passes with each year we are becoming more and more "robotic" like in our thoughts and the way that we handle things with our children. While I am a huge fan of "progress", sometimes that progress comes with a huge price tag.
Why do we seem to be heading for a world where we no longer will have children who simply believe just because....no more Santa Claus, Tooth Fairy, or Easter Bunny?
I cherish and treasure those "magical" moments in my childhood putting the cookies and milk out for Santa on Christmas Eve and let's not forget the carrots for all those reindeer !! And the blessing of believing in the Tooth Fairy who would come and replace your baby tooth with a little gift of "Thanks", knowing that he was taking your little tooth to a new baby who hasn't been born yet. Then, the Easter bunny....how did the Easter bunny always know my favorite kind of candy and I would wake up and find it right there in my basket.
Childhood memories and traditions are like rites of passage...handed down through generation after generation after generation. Some variations, but still the same meaning.
My husband and I carried those memories and traditions into our daughter's life, shared them with her, and experienced the joy from the parents' perspective. We were usually on the receiving end until we had a child of our own. You see, as quoted in the movie, "Santa Clause",
"BELIEVING IS SEEING". You don't have to prove that Santa, or the Tooth fairy, or the Easter bunny exist only if you see them....you must always carry with you that "little child" within your heart and simply believe.
Biblically....no where in the Bible does God ask us to understand the word....He merely asks us to have faith in the word.
A little bit faith...you would be surprised how much believing helps you to grow a tremendous amount of brain cells, nurture those cells, and in the end we learn that imagination is a wonderful thing !!