Hi N.,
I made a list after I delivered my son because a lot of the things we brought we didn't need and there were things I wished I had remembered. Here is what I came up with:
What to bring with you to the hospital:
1) What you definitely need
a. Snacks for you and your coach (cereal bars, energy bars, Popsicles – the ones that kids eat that are sealed on all sides are best as they won’t leak – you can put them in the freezer once you get to the hospital). Remember, if you get an epidural, you can’t eat or drink anything anymore – so eat/drink plenty before you decide to get any drugs.
b. Baby outfits – bring several – one to bring the baby home in, but others to dress him in while you are still at the hospital
c. Your own pillows – just make sure they have colored pillowcases so they don’t get mixed up with the ones that are in the hospital. Also – they may get blood on them – so don’t bring your favorite pillow – we actually went out an bought pillows just for the purpose of bringing them to the hospital with us. That way if they got ruined, it didn’t matter. You can use the hospital ones for between your legs or under your legs when in bed, but use your good ones for your head and for breastfeeding.
d. Your birth plan – make sure everyone gets a copy – including the post-partum nurses
e. A change of clothes for your partner
f. Clothes for you to go home in…bring maternity clothes – you will still look like you are 5 or 6 months pregnant when you leave the hospital.
g. Sandals for your feet – you are often quite swollen after giving birth – and your regular shoes may not fit – so wear something loose.
h. Digital camera – you definitely want pictures of your little guy as soon as he comes out. Make sure you ASSIGN someone to take pictures. We didn’t get any pictures with our camera when the little guy was first in the room with us – luckily, our Doula took pictures with her camera and sent them to us – they weren’t digital, but we scanned them in. Take pictures of everything – you will wish you had more afterwards – no matter how many you take. And make sure you take family pictures and pictures with your Doula – we didn’t get a single picture with our Doula and I wish we had!
i. Cash - Small bills for vending machines, and enough for dinners. Don't forget you'll need money for the big "It's a Boy" balloon.
j. Note: One other piece of advice: Double & Triple check, then check again, all the birth certificate & social security card information before signing. You want to make sure that everything is super legible.
k. You might not be in any shape to call people right after the birth. So you might want to make a list of who you want called ahead of time for your partner/coach.
l. Something for your husband to wear at night. The nurses might not appreciate his normal nighttime attire as much as you do.
m. Toiletries for you and your partner.
n. A nursing bra
2) What you definitely don’t need
a. No need to bring your own baby supplies – the hospital has plenty of receiving blankets, diapers, shampoo, etc.
b. No need to bring your own soap/shampoo for the shower either – they have plenty of that – you just have to ask for it.
3) Other items that might be helpful
a. Music that you find soothing/relaxing – practice relaxing to this music ahead of time
b. A birthing ball
c. A cushion that you don’t mind getting wet/soiled to bring in the shower with you. The shower is an excellent place to try laboring
d. Ask to go in the Jacuzzi – another excellent place to labor.
e. Bring a boppy pillow to the hospital with you – it will make trying to breastfeed a lot easier.
f. Portable fan – we used this a lot – we bought one at the dollar store and it was well worth it!
g. Cell phone charger and cell phone. They tell you that you are not supposed to use your cellphone – but we did – just don’t do it when the nurse is in the room. You can’t make long-distance phone calls from the room phone – so if you don’t have your cell phone then you need a calling card.
h. Video camera – we didn’t actually use ours very much – but it would have been nice if we had assigned someone to take pictures with it. You and your coach likely won’t have time to take any yourself. If you have an “extra” person in the room – they can do it (mother, doula, etc).
i. Backup Camera & Batteries - It is cheap insurance.
j. Pad of paper for notes.
k. Pair of Walkie-Talkies - It can be nice to remind the person getting lunch to get extra mayo.
l. Something your partner can wear if you want them to get in the shower with you during labor.
J.
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