First of all, let me say congradulations on your beautiful baby girl! I, too, am a stay at home mom of a 9 month old little girl with Down syndrom (neat, Huh?)
Please, please, please, if you are in the Mahining county/youngstown area, contact Maria at Help Me Grow, ###-###-####. She is the parent support group coordinator & a wonderful person. My daughter, Jada, has monthly visits at our home with her case manager. I contacted HMG for 2 reasons, this is my 1st child & we got the diagnosis prenatally.
There are also great books that you can read - exersize books - to help with gross & fine motor skills. Books on language & learning. I received all mine through the organizations I contacted: HMG, The Upside Of Downs & The Magee's Womans Hospital in Pittsburgh where we went for our genatic counciling.
But, if you don't feel all "groupy", the website for the books is - www.woodbinehouse.com. They have a free catalog of their special needs collection. The books I have are: Topics in Down Syndrom: Gross Motor Skills in Children with Down Syndrom, A Guide for Parents & Professionals. Also, ...Fine Motor Skills...Both by Patricia C. Winders,PT..Eveything is explained in writing & with pictures & they give tips & alternative movements. Loveit, loveit, loveit!
Jada, in part to our exersize & part to the graces of the Gods, she has not shown any delays, physically or mentally, & in some areas, exceeds her age.
My best advice as a mom, do not compair her skills to the time line of your other children. Let her be who she is & everyday something spetacular will happen!
I'm very excited to have read your post & feel free to contact me personally - ____@____.com ~peace ~ M.