C.H.
Great request!! This should be helpful to all of us, so I'll keep checking back...
We have had good and bad experiences at a number of places. We also travel quite a bit, so it's interesting to see what else is out there. It is so frustrating to watch the restaurant staff cringe and grumble when they see a large family walk in the door. (Obviously we steer clear of those places, but usually you have to get burned once to know).
Here are some of our faves:
** On the Border - fun atmosphere, very attentive waitstaff and a variety of selections for the kiddos. The kids menu offers everything from grilled chicken and steamed veggies to enchiladas, rice and beans to a corndog or cheesburger with fries. The kids have a choice of one side, so they could do veggies or a salad with a burger if they (or you) prefer. Kids get a free ice cream sundae with their meal.
** Big Boy/Elias Brothers - they have recently re-vamped their kids menu and they offer a wonderful variety of healthy choices for kids. They have grilled chicken wraps, yogurt, apple slices or kids salads in addition to the usual grilled cheese and fries or mac and cheese. We've been a little "hot or cold" with the service, but every location is different and generally speaking we have been treated well. The kids really like the food and the chocolate malts are a fun bonus ;)
** IHOP - We just went there Tuesday night and discovered that kids eat free on Tuesdays (yeah!). We almost always decide on something from the breakfast menu, so I can't vouch for regular dinner selections, but the kids had a large pancake with fresh banana slices for a smile and a large strawberry for each eye. It was served with a Go-Gurt (yogurt) as a side.
** Corner Bar (in Rockford) - if you're in the mood for a very casual meal of hot dogs and good "pub" food, this is the place! They are known for their hot dogs and you can dress them up however you like (Chili-dogs, Chicago-style, whatever....). The kids basket comes with Smileyface potatoes and the staff does a nice job making sure your family feels welcome.
** Red Lobster - their kids menu is one of the best in the industry. They have lots of healthy choices and nobody walks away hungry. They offer carrots and celery (with ranch dip), salad, steamed veggies and more. Kids entrees range from seafood selections to more traditional Kraft mac and cheese. It's more pricey than many casual dining choices in the area, but you're getting real food and very full bellies.
Many businesses offer coupons or specials that cater to families. I think quite a few also have a kids eat free night or rotating discounts or specials. Check around or do a google search and see what comes up. Also, look into the Entertainment Book. There are a lot of good coupons for half off or buy one get one free offers and they are good for a whole year, so you've got time to use them.
Let us know what else you find....
Bon Appetit!