Hey mamas, I'm a car seat tech (CPST) and the director for Safe Kids IL/Safe Kids Chicago. Most of these answers are right on target. No matter what the booster says (most are 30 lb minimum), we recommend that kids are at least 4 yrs old and 40 lbs before they switch to a booster (high back or backless). Like many other posters said, it's best to keep kids harnessed as long as possible, and rear facing as long as possible before that. Is it overkill to keep kids as safe as possible? I don't think so, but it's every family's choice to make. Many of you won't have a serious crash in your lifetime, but since we never know when that life changing crash will occur or who will be involved, I like to know that my family is as safe as possible, even though some people may think it's overkill. Though a rear facing child's knees may be bent, his legs are at no higher risk of being hurt in a crash, and his head and neck are much, much safer. I digress :)
Anyone can use a backless booster seat as long as there is a headrest behind their head. The high back booster must be used if your vehicle's seat backs are too low, to prevent the head from whipping back in a crash.
Please remember to keep your kids in a booster until they are 4' 9". Age and weight aren't as important as height when making the decision to ditch the booster. By 4' 9", the adult seat belt will fit most kids properly. While I certainly recommend following your local laws, please follow the current safety recommendations as well. If your state only requires boosters to age 4, your 4 yr old won't be safe in just a seat belt--keep using that booster! Most kids won't reach 4' 9" until they are between 8- 12 yrs old. And kids should stay in the backseat until they are at least 13.
I know that most of us remember a simpler time, when we could just use our seat belts and we could race our siblings to the car for shotgun. We all survived, but there are other factors to think about now, including better crash tests and airbags in vehicles.
If anyone has questions, please call or email me. I don't think I'm supposed to list my email and phone in a post, but if you google Safe Kids Chicago, or go to the national SK site and look for our coalition, you'll find my contact info.
Thanks,
J. Choi