What a Crazy Flippin' Day!!!

Updated on October 18, 2013
V.K. asks from Chisago City, MN
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Warning: This post contains sarcasm... A lot of sarcasm...

So our landlord FINALLY turned on our heat yesterday, but the carbon monoxide detectors started going off. So a guy came out to test the carbon monoxide levels, and there was carbon monoxide in the air. He figured out it had something to do with the heating system. So the landlord shut the heat back off until he can get it fixed and even though the tester guy aired out the building and said that there was no longer carbon monoxide in the air hubby made us sleep with the windows open last night. I totally get why, but... BRRRRRR!!! And of course the apartment is just freezing cold now since the heat is back off and we don't have any space heaters or anything (It should be fixed soon so we are gonna try to suck it up and get through it without the space heaters).

Then I had a prenatal appointment this morning, and that was a cluster **** of stress all by itself. My mom texted me while I was in the waiting room and said that my grandma's brother had a heart attack last night, is in the hospital, and they are awaiting test results to see if he needs surgery or not.

Then I had to have the glucose test, which as we all know involves drinking that really really gross liquid, waiting an hour, and then having blood drawn... Gross liquid and needles... AWESOME! On the plus side, they just called and said that those results came back normal.

Then I talked to my dr about my fainting issues and (WildWoman) she agreed that it could have something to do with my heart. So I got to have an EKG (Which came back normal), have a echocardiogram scheduled for next week... Which of course means that hubby has to take a day off work so he can watch Oliver since they won't let me bring him with. I get why but it stills sucks that hubby has to miss work. Oh, and I had to schedule an appointment with a cardiologist. First available appointment was on my birthday in late November. Yay. Just what I want to be doing on my birthday.

Then we went over the radiologist's notes from my ultrasound, and wouldn't you know it? There's more good news. Elizabeth has something wrong with her heart and a cyst on her brain. I didn't really understand what was wrong with her heart... Something to do with an echo in one of the ventricles. My dr didn't really understand the notes that the radiologist made. As for the cyst on the brain, my dr assured me that many babies develop cysts while in the womb and that they USUALLY go away by the time of birth. It's just something to keep an eye on. So they had me have another ultrasound today, which I really wouldn't have minded because I love ultrasounds but the tech seemed to think that since it was a recheck type ultrasound that it was "all business". I couldn't see the screen at all and didn't get any pictures :( Of course the tech couldn't tell me anything other than Elizabeth is still a girl (Meaning, there weren't any boy parts hiding last time). The radiologist has to go over the ultrasound and will then give the results to my doctor and my doctor will tell me at my next appointment... In 4 weeks. So I have a month of stress to look forward to.

So, after an appointment that I though would take a half hour tops turned into a 2 hour appointment, Oliver and I went shopping. He needs 3T clothes and I wanted to start picking up some stuff for Elizabeth (I kept all of Oliver's old clothes in case we had another boy, but since we are having a girl I am selling all of clothes and spending the money on girl clothes for Elizabeth). First, why is it that 2T clothes are WAY too small for Oliver but 3T clothes are WAY too big for him? Are there 2.5T clothes hiding somewhere that I don't know about? Second, why would a store have 4 racks of toddler girl sweaters but NO toddler boy sweaters? I looked everywhere, I asked the workers... They don't have toddler boy sweaters. They had one pull over one but it was an extremely ugly poopy brown color. Ugh.

Since I should probably say something positive about my day, so I don't sound like a complete whiner... For the first time in the 2 years we have lived in our apartment, ALL of our dishes are clean. Even doing dishes every day, our dish drainer thing is kinda small so I either do the "small" stuff like bowls and cups or the "big" stuff like pots and pans so there is always at least one dirty dish sitting in the sink. I feel so accomplished to have no dirty dishes that I don't want to cook dinner tonight and ruin all my hard work! Lol

And for the mandatory question... What is one of the craziest days you've had? One where everything has gone wrong and it's not even dinner time yet.

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So What Happened?

WildWoman - Lol, I didn't talked to my dr about you... I meant that you had mentioned possible heart problems being the reason for my fainting, so I suggested that to my dr, and she agreed that it could be and scheduled the tests.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

I was thinking of going to bed before I read this. Now I KNOW I need to go to bed. Exhausting.

I'm sorry - why did you have to talk to your OB/GYN about me? HUH?

Yes, some babies get cysts. There is nothing you can do about it - so don't stress over it. Really. I know. Roll your eyes and say "Right, you've not been here" - no, I haven't but I've had my child flat line on me - and other than giving him chest compressions - which the NICU nurses kicked me out - there was nothing I could do to change anything. So stressing over this isn't going to help. Put it out of your mind.

My crazy day? Job fair. Left - thinking I would go home. Nope, the exchange students I wasn't supposed to have to pick up - I needed to pick up. Then the kid I was supposed to pick up from home - I needed to pick up at school as there was a miscommunication about who was taking him. Then I had to take one to football practice and take another one home. Got my mom's death certificate today along with all of her medical records and realized I still need to take care of some business for my dad. Urgh. Granted nothing like your day - but still crazy.

look on ebay for sweaters for Oliver.

oh well. that's life. Buckle up, baby. it's a roller coaster.

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M.C.

answers from Chattanooga on

Oi vey for you!

I do want to say though, that my youngest brother was born with two cysts on his brain, and a hole in his heart. The hole had to be fixed, but the cysts both went away on their own, and he has never had any issues whatsoever from them... So don't worry too much about that!

For my crazy day, I would say it was in July. My husband woke up very early with a horrendous toothache... His entire face was swollen, so we made an emergency trip to the dentist. He wound up having to have one tooth pulled, and another drilled. Luckily, we had JUST gotten dental insurance... But the co-pay was still enough to sting quite a bit. Then, when we went to leave the dentist office we found that we had a flat tire... AND that our spare was flat! So, we got to pay for a tow truck and to fix both tires. We ran to Walmart to have Hubby's pain meds filled, and it took them TWO hours to fill the prescription! By then the office visit's medication had worn off, so he was hurting and grumpy. As we were waiting in line to pay for the pills, we got a call from my sister-in-law telling us that our 3 yo daughter had fallen off my bed, and hurt her elbow. So we go home, (around 2pm by this time...) and check on her. She had fallen out at 9am, and was still very tender, so we called her pediatrician for an appointment. (I though it must be a bruised bone, or wrenched muscle or something painful, but relatively minor.) she got an appointment for 4, so we spent the next couple hours trying to ice her elbow a bit and keep her comfortable. Then we get to the pediatrician, where we spent 45 minutes in the main waiting room, and another hour in the office before being seen by the doctor... Who, after hearing our story, poked around my daughters elbow a few times (causing her to scram in pain...) and diagnosed her with nursemaids elbow. She then proceeded to YANK her arm straight, twice, before I stopped her and told her I would take her to the ER instead. So we get to the ER around 6:30. We got to wait there, but at least THEY were relatively quick. We then had to get my daughter to cooperate for X-rays, (who, by this point, was extremely cranky from the pain and not eating all day, because we couldn't get her to eat through the pain.) It turned out hat she had a broken elbow! It was a Friday evening, so they were only able to splint her arm and give her a pain prescription. So we finally get home around 9:30 where I got the pleasure of preparing dinner for and nursing a broken toddler and drugged up husband.

On the plus side, they both went to sleep almost immediately after dinner, so I got a well-earned chance to actually read a book in a bubble bath!

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L.C.

answers from Los Angeles on

Wow! That is one crazy day! I am tired just reading your post. I wish I could give you a big hug and a pat on the back. Tomorrow is another day :-)

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M.M.

answers from Boston on

I'm exhausted just reading this....

...at least the dishes are clean.... :)

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E.A.

answers from Erie on

I can't pick. I often joke that there's a whole decade that's a little blurry, what with the non stop action involved in herding/feeding/caring for 4 kids under 8yo, a PT job, a husband that worked 70 hours a week...Yeah. Good times. *wretch* /sarcasm

My motto: This too shall pass. Tonight another mom and I bonded at the hair dressers telling stories of our boys' broken bones and concussions.

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M.K.

answers from Columbus on

Well, having had some crazy days, I am a total believer of the nice little saying of: when it rains, it pours!! All I can hope for you is that things will get better!!

As for the clothing for your son - look for sizes without the "T" - I don't know what brainiac came up with the clothing system for kids, but there really is a difference between 2T and just a regular 2.

Sending prayers for your baby Elizabeth.

Good luck!!

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V.B.

answers from Jacksonville on

Deep breaths.
:)

Glad you don't have to take the 3 hour glucose test. ;)

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M.W.

answers from San Francisco on

Dang..is it bedtime yet?!?

Hope tomorrow is a bit less crayzaaay!

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D.G.

answers from Dallas on

I don't know - today has been pretty up there so far. Maybe it's just been this week ? Son ended up in principals office on Monday for major disobedience in several classrooms (3rd grade). He now has to spend part of classtime and each recess this week in the office doing classwork. He had a check up last night with his ADHD doc and the meds are working like they need to. So we are adding one to see if that will work (another copay). Son's thyroid function has been off on the last 2 bloodworks so we get to see an endocrincologist. Got that scheduled for their office that is the furthest from the house. That will be another copay. I have a tooth that needs to be filled or capped. We won't know till we get in there. That will probably be put off again until I have the money now. Then said 3rd grader didn't make it home with his only light weight jacket yesterday. So if he doesn't find it today we will have to hit Target or Wal Mart and get another one ! And my 8th grader's teenage attitude has hit with a vengence. I just want to stay in bed for a long time but have to work to pay for all this and tomorrow we will be at baseball games all morning. Thanks for letting me vent :)

Glad your dishes are done and your glucose test was normal !

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F.B.

answers from New York on

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Nothing I've faced of late compares. Thank you for sharing yours though. It helps me gain some perspective on my own. An upended bowl of rice pudding on the newly washed floor is now so much less of an issue.

As for the boys stuff, I am afraid that this is a lifelong problem. They just don't make nearly as much for boys as they do for girls. We shop online to get more variety, and sometimes shop the girl section. Really, what's it matter if a red cable knit sweater was marketed for girls. It can be worn by a boy too. If its light blue and has a giraffe on it, my boy can wear it. If its green and has a monkey, that's fine too.

Best to you and yours,
F. B.

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