Very Concerned for My Grandsons .

As hard as it is to accept at times, CPS has to have concrete evidence in order to pursue removal. The way a woman lives her personal life, however immoral, is not justifiable cause so long as the children aren't put in harms way. While we can see the poor life lessons being taught, that is not against the law.

Unless the children are left alone for long periods of time, have life threatening situations or chronic problems with health issues, there won't be anything solid for CPS to stand on.

May I suggest contacting the school your grandson attends and sharing your concerns with the principal and the couselor(s). Teachers/administration are required to document any suspicions or concerns they may have. They may have had concerns that did not warrant contacting CPS because they were isolated or minor. After sharing the ringworm situation, the documentation they may have, could be enough to get CPS's attention again.

Document is crucial. Note everything that has been said/has occured for your own records in case you need them in the future (date, time, conversation noted as detailed as possible, specific situation, where it took place, etc. witnesses if available.)

Having a doctor's input is also important. Ringworms can spread quickly if untreated, but there is no reason for him to be COVERED in them. The excuse that she doesn't have time to take care of it is an example of NEGLECT. As bad as the situation is for him, I must caution that having him placed in foster care has it's own problems. From the sounds of your letter, I am assuming that you would be willing to care for him should he be removed. Your son could also use these documentations to pursue full custody of his son.

Hope this is helpful. I am so sorry that your little grandson is going through this. We will lift him in prayer, as well as the rest of the family.

Blessings in Christ,
M.

M. Schultze ~ Founder & President of C.H.O.S.E.N. Adoption & Foster Ministry, Inc. (Adoptive mother of 4 through: private, international and foster adoptions.)

Regarding your grandson with ringworms. Are you sure this is what he has? Have you seen the diagnosis in writing. My reason for asking this is there are similiar rashes that resemble ring worm and can often be difficult to diagnose. I am not trying to play medical doctor, but I am curious to why the "ringworm" has not subsided if the mother states she is treating him. There is a condition called "pityriasis rosea" and it very much looks like ring worm. It is caused by a virus(not dangerous) and the best treatment for it is sunlight. There is a web site that is trustworthy. It is www.webmd.com. Try doing some research there. If you don't notice a rash on the trunk of his body then it maynot be this, but it can spread to the arms and even to the scalp. It takes weeks to go away. Anyway, just something to consider. As far as the tea you are looking for, have you tried Whole Foods or Sunharvest? I am sure what you are walking through is very difficult, but don't stop what you are doing and just pour out you unconditional love on your grandson. As for you and the relationship you are trying to walk away from, keep taking those steps and make sure you have a good support system. You need people to listen and encourage you. This website is a good start and I believe their is freedom for you regarding your relationship and your trials. You mention you have health problems. It's amazing what stress will do to our bodies. I don't know what type of health problems you are encountering, but you keep seeking ways to help yourself. If you would like to share some of your concerns about your health, I would love to hear about it in hopes I can give you some reassurance and I can pray for you. Just a thought. Blessings your way and may you be filled with the wisdom and knowledge you need to walk this journey with great hope!!!! Be Encouraged

I got ringworm from a dog once & my doctor recommended using Lotrimin (anti-fungal foot cream sold over the counter) and it cleared up within a couple of days. You could also use it on his feet while you're at it. Good luck!

That is horrible just to know that these little innocent children don't have the proper care from their own mother. You need to report this again with CPS, and tell them what is going on with your grandson make sure you mention the ringworms on your grandsons body so they can investigate onces more. The Tea Tree Oil is sold almost everywhere, H.E.B., Walgreens, even Sally's sells it just ask for it, now I don't know what form of Tea Tree Oil your looking for because the one I saw at Sally's it comes in a little bottle that looks like the shape of the camphonic bottle but in a dark brown color bottle they might sell it in a shampoo form I'm not sure. Good Luck and God Bless you and your sons, and grandkids too.

Tea Tree Oil is sold at Sun Harvest or Whole Foods Store. If you purchase the essential oil you have to dilute it with a carrier oil such as Almond Oil or Grapeseed Oil before applying it to your Grandson's body. If the ringworm is on just a few spots, you can apply the tea tree oil directly on to spot only. Hope this helps and it clears up soon.

Good Luck to you and your grandkids! My heart goes out to you.
Peace and Light!