T.B.
I've had two successful VBAC's after my c-section in the early 90's. When I did go into the hospital for delivery the 2nd and 3rd time, they did prep me for a possible c-section again - put an IV thing into my arm just in case - but it wasn't needed. Since then I've continued to hear that doctor's just aren't giving the option anymore for liability reasons. I don't necessarily think it's a hospital decision but the decision of the doctor. Yes, there is a concern about splitting the incision or something like that, which on some medical level is a concern and I do honor that point as I'm not a doctor. But if you're healthy, gain a relatively normal amount of weight, 30 or less, and there are no complications up to labor, then what's the problem. Actually, if I were to do it all over again, I'd have a home birth. I truly believe I wouldn't have had to have a c-section at all had I had a patient, caring Dula and/or mid-wife to help me through this most wonderful gift of childbirth. So my recommendation is to find a doctor (preferably a woman with a more holistic paradigm) who really listens to the desires of the birthing couple and I mention couple because most men do have an opinion when asked. I wish you luck and wonderful birth!
T.