Using Other People's Questions to Make Jabs

Updated on September 01, 2011
D.K. asks from South Sioux City, NE
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Ok, ladies, why use other people's questions to make jabs at one another? I know I am getting old but this just seems so high school. It's ok to disagree but if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. What is the point in highjacking someone else's question to argue.

Edit: I don't mind the disagreements with one another on questions, that's to be expected and engaging. I'm talking about when they don't even address the question at all but simply post because they know someone is on that question and just make jabs. Sorry I should have clarified better.

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So What Happened?

You gals are silly! Most of the time we all go back and forth like adults would. That is constructive. Last night I was reading threw a couple of questions and I noticed some ladies were not even answering the questions they we posting to one another and none of them were stating anything about the question or to the questioner. It was like they high jacked a question to carry on a conversation between themselves. I use this sight as a coffee break type of thing. I homeschool my four kids and I need a break! When I got on here and noticed the bickering I though, "well if I wanted to sit in on that I could just walk down to my own family room."

I must admit ladies. My kids haven't figured out "I know you are but what am I." Thank God!!! In the end you all gave me a giggle with your high school quotes so I guess I got my break. Thanks!

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J.W.

answers from St. Louis on

I know you are but what am I :p

Just kidding I used to hate hearing that when I was in first grade. :)

I have no idea why. Sometimes I will address another answer but only when they are factually wrong. By factually wrong I mean something like saying up is down, you know something that is not opinion. I think it has happened twice since I have been on this board. Then again I also answer the question at the same time

Ya know one of these days I am going to read all the answers before I respond. As it is I didn't on this one...oops!

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D.B.

answers from Charlotte on

The ones that bother me the most are the nasty political rants. The questions are just guises for trying to poke fingers in eyes. It is really transparent and irritating.

Dawn

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Wait, what?

Tag, you're it!

:)

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Ummmm...isn't that kind of what YOU'RE doing with this question?

Did not.

3boysUnder3: I know you are but what am I? LOL

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G.H.

answers from Chicago on

Ummmmmm but she started it.....haha

Did too

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

she's touching me!!!!

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S.L.

answers from New York on

I agree with Jo W. sometimes people post completely made up sh** as if it is fact and I cannot stand thinking others will read and believe it. but thats very rare. Like every town and city in the US has an orphanage full of babies just waiting to be adopted, hello??? No not in the US. See there I go taking your question to turn it into a jab to someone else.
OK now I feel bad, I was cranky. but sometimes we have trouble letting something go because it means So much to us. For instance Anyone who has dealt with infertility, failed adoptions, does not want to hear people who say how easy and affordable it is to adopt a healthy baby.

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

They say.... that when women are routinely in a room together over time... they eventually all have the same timing of their periods and PMS'ing.
Really, I have heard that.

Maybe... that is why?

I really have no answer.
Sorry.

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M.E.

answers from Jacksonville on

I've noticed this. Perhaps we should ask the "jabbers" what they get when they indulge their ego at someone else's expense. Because obviously there is a payoff for them or while else would they do it? Its definitely annoying.

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K..

answers from Phoenix on

I think it's kind of funny that your point has already been proven within the first 2 answers to your question.

It's a site for women... 'nuff said.

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S.T.

answers from Kansas City on

i get how people are saying you are doing the same thing. but it is not in the same way, you are just asking why people are doing it. IMO, people do it because they have nothing better to do with their lives, maybe they are just jealous of the other person or have some kind of inferiority(sp) complex. they should just say what they want to say to the person instead of trying to call them out like that. they are immature and havent really grown up from junior high.

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B..

answers from Dallas on

Yes...I'm sorry to say...this is the same thing! I get what you're saying, though.

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H.G.

answers from Dallas on

Thats why I love this site and you ladies!
Stir, stir, stir :)

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E.A.

answers from Erie on

What about flagging people who don't agree with you, purely because they pointed out the fallacy on your argument? I hate when people do that ;)

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H.M.

answers from Omaha on

I love hair flips! Apparently mamasource has turned into baby center and all the other sites. Sad.

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S.S.

answers from Omaha on

I gues I don't read other answers most of the time- so I was unaware this was going on

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A.B.

answers from Naples on

I haven't seen this first hand, but what you are describing is unfortunate.
I think what makes this site so unique and great is that it is not set up like most forums where people can reply to other people's replies. So that keeps it focused on the original person's question and I think that is why this site is SO great for advice and support. Well unfortunately it sounds like people try to get around that by making jabs as you said in other people's questions.
Oh well. :( Best of luck to you! :)

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