Good Morning C., This may get a little more personal then what you or anyone else reading this might of expected but here goes.
I would definitely contact you OB-GYN if you have one or your family Dr.
I went to a specialist in I think it was 83-84 with complaints, he told me I would probably need a Hysti put I could put it off as long as I wanted too. DUH stupid me did just that, to the almost failure of our marriage.
I had sever pain before I had a Complete Hysti in 87, before, during and after intercourse. All of my internal organs were cover with fibers. They took them all out scraped them off cleaned them up and put them back.. I was a puzzle in progress, they removed about a foot of my colon as there was a walnut sized tumor growing there, to the point if I had put it off any longer could of resulted in a bag to pee and poop in,. plus my appendix. My Dr. said at my bedside he was amazed I even let my husband touch me at all. Well that was one thing I never told him (dr.) as that was our only Huge problem we ever really had. I didn't let him touch me very often. Hearing it from the Dr. caused him to wake up and realize there actually was a problem, and I wasn't just putting him off, or that I just didn't want to be with him, or I hated sex etc... He apologized over and over again.
Since then it's been ok until the last 5 yrs or so. I am 58 he is 59, There is pain and burning again, Feels like I am being ripped apart and it's not pleasant. So we haven't been together intimately in over a yr. My Dr. can't find anything wrong, there isn't any type of scare tissue or blockage.
The good thing now is my husband said if we never were intimate ever again there was more to our marriage then the physical part. He would love me always. We have tried many times just can do it. It's so tight I just can't bear the pain.
Make an appointment with your Dr. C., and soon. Have what ever tests, ultra sounds, MRI's whatever it takes to find the cause of your pain. I had cystic ovaries about 2 yrs into our marriage and that cause some Horrendous pain.
God Bless you and I will pray you find the answers you need very quickly, don't put it off go As soon as Possible
K. Nana of 5
PS Sorry if this was way to descriptive.