Be grateful if your kids do get chicken pox. Then you won't need the vaccine. Don't worry about it, chicken pox is more of an inconvience for the family than anything. Yes there are children who die from it, but children also die from staph infections from hangnails, and we don't vaccinate against those, and no one worries about them either. The danger of chicken pox is way over blown, because it is the only way the drug companies can justify having people pay for the vaccine. Do you remember having chicken pox as a kid? It was a right of passage, and exciting. It meant no school for a week, and you really didn't feel that bad, just itchy! If you do wind up at home for a week, think of some low key kind of fun things to work on, crafts are good, bake cookies, wear pajamas, watch tv and movies. Handle it the way your mother did and you'll be fine. Good luck.