To get rid of pacifiers a lot of people begin cutting the tip of the nipples off. Little by little every day.. Then when it is useless, they have the children throw the rest away.
Maybe you need to start losing so many of the bottles.. Then start snipping the tips off of all of the nipples. Have your child throw
The other thing is tantrums are not to be tolerated. Ever. No matter the reason. When I daughter threw a fit. We ignored her by stepping away from her or over her and going into another room.
If we were out in public, I scooped her up and left with her. I placed her in her car seat and then drove home. When she calmed down I told her I was "not happy that I was not able to by groceries because she had thrown the fit." I also told her I was never going to take her to run errands again if she acted like that again. Each time we were preparing to go somewhere. I explained the behaviors that were expected and I promised, we would leave if she threw a fit.
We were like Rachel D. We gave her the heads up that when babies turn 1. They do not have baby bottles anymore. They go away and then you use sippy cups. I let her pick one out and I picked one out.. In the morning ALL bottles and paraphernalia was gone.
I asked her, do you want milk or juice? Handed it to her and we never looked back.
At her Birthday that day everyone gave her a sippy cup. there were a ton to choose from. So if she was a little grumpy or needed some controls, I would ask her, which one of these sippys do you want today? Do you want milk or juice? Or Milk or water?