Absolutely! I cannot use any detergent or fabric softener w/ perfume or I itch all over my body, it's awful! I had to rewash all my stuff (including sheets) in dye and perfume free detergent and fabric softener.
You might also want to switch to Jason bath and lotion products for your baby. THey have a line of totally dye and parfume free products that are great. Health food stores carry Jason products. Rewash all clothes and bedding and bathe baby with gentle cleansers and lotion up with gentle, chemical free lotion and she'll probably start to recover just fine. Weleda also has calendula lotion that is very gentle and healing.
Babies' skin is much more sensative and add to that that some people just have more sensative skin. Tide is BAD. You want to switch to something like ALL free and clear. And fabric softeners are really bad, too. Not only are they perfumey but they fade darks, break down the fibers in your clothes faster and are horrible for you.
Did you know that according to the National Cancer Association's 15-year study concluded that women who work in the home are at a 54% higher risk of developing cancer than women who work outside the home? It's because of chemicals--chemicals in our cleaners, fabric softeners, laundry detergents, etc that make the air in our homes more toxic than the air outside! Switching will be good for EVERYONE in your home.
We are total victims of very effective marketing! As consumers we need to educate ourselves. If you MUST use a commercial fabric softener, you can find dryer sheets that are free and clear also w/o the dyes or perfumes. (The perfumes in that stuff are just a host of harmful chemicals anyway--did you know that air fresheners are full of neurotoxins?)
However, upon having my baby, we switched to vinegar. It's a natural fabric softener--you just add it to your downey ball like you would any other fabric softener (fill 1/2 way). Also, your clothes WON'T smell like vinegar. Works like a charm--and A LOT cheaper.
As for static cling, you can buy these ball things at Linens N Things to put in your dryer with clothes and they prevent static cling. I even saw some pink ones in the baby section at Meijer recently by the Dreft. (Dreft is a scam by the way!)
Anyone who would like more info on this stuff and what to do instead, just email me. I have archived numerous articles on this stuff. Blessings!!!