Toddler Potty Training

Updated on July 13, 2011
V.S. asks from Lima, OH
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I have a 3 year old daughter who is completely potty trained, during the day. At night time, she wears a diaper because while she is sleeping, she doesn't understand to go to the bathroom. Her pediatrician told me to stop giving her liquids after 9pm. The problem is that she shares a room with her 1 year old sister. So to avoid any temper tantrums, we obviously try to give her what she wants. The other problem is that I am on bed rest due to severe pre-eclampsia and my husband works night shift. So at night, after the kids fall asleep, my husband heads off to work. This shift for him is better because he is home with the kids and he cannot get on day shift for a few years. So, I try to avoid her getting her sister up by giving her what she wants. Now, she is currently on an antibiotic and steroid because she was diagnosed with a mild case of croup and an upper respiratory infection last Friday. I'm unsure if the reason she is asking for so much liquid because the medicines are making her have a dry mouth or what. She has never asked for this much liquids before so I am assuming for the past few days, that is why she is getting up in the middle of the night. I only remember steroids making me hungry.

I'm unsure how to get her potty trained at night time. We've tried telling her in the past that she cannot have anymore liquids after 9pm when she goes to bed, but eventually, she starts asking for it again. And again like I said before, to avoid any temper tantrums or fits, I just give her more liquids. I know this is the problem, but I cannot afford to have her wake up her sister while I am on bed rest and my husband working nights. Once my pregnancy is over, which should be here in another 4 weeks at the most, we can hopefully resolve the issue. We have another bedroom for the 1 year old, but I think she likes to sleep in the same room with her sister for company so we turned the other bedroom into a toy room.

Can anyone please offer some advice? Thanks!

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Thank you for the responses. We are going to wait and potty train her at night time when she is ready. She has been leaking through her diapers at night time and getting it onto her bed and that's why I couldn't understand. But as most of you said, if I am not willing to control my habits, then the potty training at night won't happen. So in conclusion, we are going to wait at least until our next baby is born and a little older before we try or we may end up trying when she is around 4.

I appreciate all your honesty with this and it has helped me to realize that hey, I couldn't force my toddler to potty train at 2 and she potty trained herself without my help so this is the same way!!!

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C.B.

answers from Kansas City on

my advice is you either have to deal with the tantrums or get over the fact that she doesn't stay dry at night. right? i mean you can't force this - and bottom line, you're giving her the fluids that are causing her to be wet, so you can't really fault her for not staying dry. my advice is resign yourself to buying pullups for her for awhile (or diapers, whichever) and don't waste another moment stressing about it. nighttime dryness is not something you teach, she will grow into it when she's ready. sounds like you have enough on your plate as it is without adding this pressure on yourself (and her, over something she can't control).

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T.R.

answers from Tulsa on

I agree with Adansmama....

if you're contributing to the "problem" and not willing to change your habits, the results will stay the same. When you're ready to address the issue is when you'll be able to resolve the issue.

Yes steriods can affect MANY areas of the body and in some it cause them to want to drink more fluids. It can cause more frequent urination (usually cause people are drinking more) and of course it increases appetite. Another side effect that is looked over is it causes irritability (sp??), meaning she will be more difficult to deal with. Not be able to control her emotions as well, and therefore have more meltdowns. At the very least I would NOT worry about this issue until she is done taking the steriods.

I hope this helps!!

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P.S.

answers from Houston on

You might have to wait until your baby is born to continue night training.

I always heard no more liquids after 7pm.

gl!

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J.L.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Your child is too young to stay dry at night or even know to wake herself up to go to the bathroom. This ability doesn't come until much later, like 5-6 years old. I have quite a few friends with kids ages 5-7 who still wear a pull-up at night. You can't train her to stay dry, her body needs to be developmentally ready. If you want her to stop drinking water at night, I would wait until she is off the antibiotics and feeling better completely before you try to do that. My daughter is 3 and is nowhere near ready to be trained at night. She just wears a diaper at night so it's no big deal when she pee's at night. I understand you wanting to put a stop to the constant requests for water at night, but why the rush to have her dry at night?

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C.F.

answers from Cleveland on

It looks like you already have some good input here, I would agree it was little early for nighttime dryness. I do have two other suggestions if you are not doing this already - Specific overnight diapers, I know Huggies makes good ones, they hold more than normal day time diapers. Also depending on how she is getting that nighttime drink, put less in the cup (like for my son his sippy would be only like 1/2 full or less after 8pm) and depending on what's she drinking don't give her favorite. My youngest doesn't really like water - ever - but will drink it if he is very thirsty and no other option. So if I give him water at night he has something he can drink if is genuinely thirsty but can't get a drink just to delay bed time. Good Luck. It will all work itself out in time.

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