B.B.
My son will be 3 in December. His nap patterns, or lack thereof, were taking a toll on my marriage! He would refuse to nap, no matter how tired and cranky, until 5 or 6, only he'd wake 3 hours later and try to stay up until 12am! He is very active, and my husband would just get in from work when he'd wake, raring to go! What we decided on doing is "forcing" a nap on him at 1 or 2 pm(by 'force' I mean lay him down in his room for 10min-9 out of 10 times it would work), or if he refused to nap until 3pm or later, then I would wake him after an hour-hour and a half. This really works out well for all of us-my son has reestablished a regular 9-930 bedtime, which allows us some alone time, aside from passing out exhausted together, and he also wakes and eats at regular times, and just seems more organized all around, I also cut out any sweets, and colored and processed food/drink, and noticed a huge difference almost immediately.Hope this helps!