Toddler Clamps Legs Together & Lays on Floor (Constipation/neurological/other)?

Updated on September 27, 2011
S.A. asks from Bristol, PA
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Our son is almost 20 months. On & off for several months now, he has been clamping his legs tightly together & laying on the floor (he does this from 30 min-2 hrs at a time). When I change his diaper during this, I have to pry his legs apart, as his leg muscles are very tight. During these episodes, he can walk if I stand him up or if he wants a toy, but then he lays down again after a few steps. We thought it might be constipation or withholding a bowel movement, but after 1 week of being on a stool softener, it seems worse not better. The pediatrician thought it was a neurological issue, but the nuerologist said it doesn't sound like it. Any advice or guidance on correcting this issue would be greatly appreciated.

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So What Happened?

First I want to thank everyone for their wonderful words of advice & encouragement! It gave me the strength to look past what the 2 pediatricians were saying & follow my gut instincts. I stopped the stool softener all together & watched his diet for a few days to see if anything triggered the pooping or leg clamping. Nothing seemed to be consistent, so I started giving him 4 oz of prune juice mixed with 4 oz of water & a dropper full of vitamins every day. It has now been a few weeks & I am happy to report he is a totally different child. He runs & plays & has loads of energy. From day 2 of getting vitamin drops, he stopped the leg clamping entirely & started to poop regularly within 3 days. I always felt it was a vitamin deficiency based on his poor diet, but the pediatrician said that should not be the case. Needless to say I am so happy to have my fun loving son back. It is just in time for our daughter to be born, so he can be a great big brother for her. Thanks again to everyone. -S. & family-

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L.M.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Hi, S.! I agree with the other two responses... do not let this go! If your pediatrician and any other doctor don't know what is wrong with him-- get him to a Children's Hospital for evaluation. If the first doctor you see there doesn't help, DEMAND another.

Surprisingly, we moms often have to push to get the medical care we need for our kids. Don't worry about seeming pushy. This is your child's health, and at 20 months old, he needs YOU to be his voice and his champion.

This doesn't sound like normal behavior... and I'm not trying to scare you (it could be something very simple), but you need to find an answer.

Good luck, and I hope everything turns out for your little boy.

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T.W.

answers from Washington DC on

Hi S.,

I would also not let this go. One of my sons suffers from constipation on and off and I've never seen him behave that way! Its far way but I have an excellent neurologist in Bethesda who works closely with Children's Hospital. Her name is Dr. Sylvia Edelstein and she is fabulous. Please feel free to contact me if you need more information.

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J.H.

answers from Grand Rapids on

my son does this also. He is 26 months and does this ALOt!! he gets upset if we try to interupt. I hav no answers but I am conserend. Please update me if you have any answers. he has a doctors appt. in october and if you can post your email I can share my imput.
wishing you luck,
Jennie and Cody lee H.

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K.S.

answers from Washington DC on

Get him to the doctor, like, yesterday. The only thing I can add is that if you have a telephone camera or video camera so you can record one of these episodes for the pediatrician, so much the better.

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H.

answers from Pittsburgh on

I would push your pediatrician to solve this. If the end result is always a bowel movement, I would say the issue lies somewhere in that -- either a physical pain of some sort or a fear of some sort. Some kids get freaked out about letting go of bowel movements. Just a phase.

Having said that. If it isn't always the end result, I would really push the ped. and the neurologist to evaluate him further. As a mom who has a toddler who had TWO lower abdominal/pelvic surgeries, there is a lot that can cause problems in that region.

Does he seem like he is in pain when he is lying there or when you move him? When he is tense like that are there any lumps or bumps in his groin, back or legs?

Hope you get this figured out.
H.

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T.K.

answers from Scranton on

I agree, DO NOT LET IT GO!! That sounds like something other than just a bowel movement but even it is, you need to find out. Sometimes doctors won's do anything until you push them and it is your child. I would not just let it go. Go to a different neurologist until you get someone who will do some tests. Hope that helps

T. :)

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