I.M.
Hi Grace,
I have 2 girls, 6 & 7. At times they still wake up on my bed! Don't feel bad, your son is still a baby and likes to feel your warmth at night. It wasn't easy keeping up with everything, but us women, we are strong people. i believe God made us that way for a reason. All I have to say is to not pay too much attention to those little things, don't drive yourself crazy. Those are all things that go away with time. Before you know it, all he'll want to do is be on his own! My two are very individual, but they still like to cuddle and run to my room once in a while.
Just be patient and take it a day at a time. Talk to your husband about what you want so that you can both come to an understanding. THings are always easier when both are on the same page.