Good Question.
I really felt like we did lots of things great, because our priority was not to have a clean house and perfect yard, so much as to have fun times together.
We also did not waste money on expensive new cars or new things, instead we used our money for basics, so we could go out together to Museums, the theater, Festivals, adventures togther.
We gave our daughter choices when we could so that when there was no choice for her she was willing to be a big helper.
We always followed her lead and never underestimated her in any way. Just because the box says 8 to 12 year olds, did not mean our 5 year old could not figure it out and complete it with a little assistance. Just because she could walk at 6 months, did not mean we put her in walker, instead we made her/our house safe for her.
I wish we had not worried so much. She is not eating, she is so picky, her room is not picked up.
I wish when she was first ill with ear infections and it continued over and over, I had followed my mommy heart and brain and gotten the damn tubes right away. My husband was so worried, so I let him lead the way. She suffered so much pain and hearing loss all because of an adults fears.
The number 1 thing I think we are all 3 thrilled about is that when our daughter would ask for 1 more story, or 1 more book, We ALWAYS read it.
Sure there were some super late nights, but what better way to spend it than reading together in our daughters bed all together so many nights?
She has thanked us for this so many times, I always slept so good, knowing we could fulfill that wish so easily.
Love your kids. Sniff their sweaty heads. Ask them to tell you a story and then listen.
Our baby will be 21 this summer, seems like yesterday I was carrying her around with those bright eyes.