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There was a question about this same topic posted a few days ago and below is what I responsed to that one. If you are looking to still have a nice surprise, a little fun, and do something different, maybe you will like to try something like this. I don't think you will regret it either way.
I did not find out for my first 2. So, I decided I wanted to try finding out for my 3rd. My husband did not want to find out. So, my sis in law gave us a really great idea to still make it exciting. We had the ultrasound tech put the gender in an envelope. We gave the envelope to a bakery. And, we told the bakery to bake the cake pink for a girl and blue for a boy. They frosted it with white so we could not see until we cut it and put a cute saying on top that said '10 fingers, 10 toes, boy or girl nobody knows'. We invited our closest friends and family over to all find out with us. I had everyone where pink or blue depending on what they thought it was. It was so much fun! No one that came had ever been a part of something like it before so everyone was excited! I figured since you don't have a shower or anything after the 1st, it was a nice get together with the family to celebrate the coming of the baby as well. Anyway, just an idea that we loved. I really can't say one way was better than the other. And, I feel like I am still just as excited about the birth. Have fun!