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Hi K.,
I worked in a "low preforming" school for several years of my teaching career. Several things to consider are.
-- The letter you receive is mandated by No Child Left Behind. Factors that are involved in the "low" score are sometimes outside of the ability of the school to change them. (example..Attendance of your students greatly effects the score) Also, the socio-economic factor of the neighborhood where the school is located, can cause there to be more students that enter lacking the basic skills to preform well on standardized tests. If the teacher you daughter has is excellent in all her roles, bonds well with the children and works well with the parents then any child can flourish, regardless of the arbitrary rating of the federal government.
--That said, if the teachers are good and your daughter is on grade level, she is actually helping the over all academic environment for all students. I am not understanding about the emotional suffering? Has your daughter been bullied or has she had difficulty connecting to peers? Is the environment of the school inviting, warm, loving and supportive?
--Most extra curricular activities (or specials as we called them) in elementary are set district wide, unless the principal or the PTA decide to spend there money to increase them. I worked in the North Clackamas and Woodburn school districts, all school were assigned the same number of days of music, P.E., library, computers...etc. From my first year to the last year I taught (7 years) the number of days that we had P.E. and music were cut in 1/2 and they fired all of our librarians, and hired educational assistants to teach the classes. It is a problem of money in most schools and limited resources.
**Really you are the only one who knows your daughter. I have found that it is the teacher that has the biggest impact on a child's success in the classroom. But, if your daughter senses from you that her school is "sub-par" it might be causing her some anxiety.
I hope this helps.