H.P.
I just had a vbac 10 days ago! My heart was set on it too and while it was ALOT of work, I'm glad I did it. Baby was transverse and did not want to fit, so I wound up with a 4 th degree episiotomy and baby had a big 'ol cone head from 4 attempts at vacuum extraction! That being said, I wouldn't have changed anything. I really wanted the vaginal birth experience. Thankfully my doctor knew that and was willing to try it all, hence the episiotomy and vacuum extraction. I can say that even though the episiotomy hurts after, it was a much less painful a recovery than a c section, in my opInion.
My doctor is in Texas, so his name probably won't help you out, but it's Dr Axline.
Best of luck and pm me if you have any questions!!