I'm gonna have to make a list so it doesn't run on too long...
1. When you walk into their room first thing in the morning and they see your face over the side of their crib and light up because they are so happy to see you.
2. Watching their firsts. Finding their feet, crawling, walking, swings and slides, Santa, preschool, kindergarten, reading, writing, rollercoasters, recitals, soccer games and the joy that comes with all of these things.
3. When they are old enough to really anticipate with much excitement their birthdays and Christmas. Oh, Christmas...what a magical time. From looking for a Christmas tree to visiting Santa to leaving cookies and milk out and carrots and water and reindeer dust to seeing their faces on Christmas morning. Drinking hot coco or wassel. Just writing this is putting a lump in my throat.
4. Cuddling on the couch and hearing them say "I love you". or when they are really little, it's "I wuv you".
5. If I've run an errand or gone out with girlfriends w/out the kids I find myself racing home to see everyone. And the greeting I get when I walk through the door makes me want to walk out and walk back in again.
6. Seeing them explore with crafts and activities and witnessing when they finally understand something that has stumped them.
7. Watching them love their father. He is their hero (and mine too).
8. Seeing the excitement when you announce that we're going to Grandma's house today. And the inevitable question, "Will the cousins be there?" And then total mayhem when I say yes.
9. Sneaking into their rooms at night and watching them sleep. Who knew these kids who were so wound up earlier in the day...sometimes fighting, sometimes making a mess, sometimes getting a little lippy...who knew they could be so peaceful. I can't help but take a picture.
10. Baking goodies and seeing their messy faces after they've licked the beaters clean.
11. Shaking our booties to whatever music is on.
12. I keep a document on my desktop for each child entitled Quotes by Maddie Mae or (Ellie Jo). Whenever they say something hilarious, I write down the date, the background of the conversation and what was said. We love going through those a few times a year and reliving the really funny things that came out of their mouths or memorable things they have done.
I could seriously go on and on. Yes, there are a lot of things that are challenging about having kids, but the good FAR outweighs the difficult. They don't know this now because they don't have kids yet, but tell them they will learn of a love that they didn't know existed.
Enjoy! I'm gonna go hug my kids now.