L.C.
T., I call this a pitty party and I dont buy into it. When I see this attitude raise its ugly head in my kids I immediatly address it. First of all I do recognize the disappointment and give them a break an afternoon to get over it and then that is it. We as parents give so much to our children they forget how good they have it and focus on what they dont have instead of being greatful for what they do have. If my children dont snap out of their self pitty modes I take them to volunteer for the less fortunate to put things back into perspective. They always have a change of heart and attitude when they are finished serving and honestly I follow the same thing when I feel entitled. As far as spring break what a wonderful gift. If my son acts like it is going to be boring I tell him boring is what you make it and let him know he can stay with grandma ( who is very very strict)and I will be happy to take his nephew who is less fortunate in his place. I am saying all this in a nice way I hope it doesnt come across brass, that is not my intention. Good luck.