Hi J.,
I have found this happens sometimes. Have you tried talking to her about it? If you do this, and she really does not understand, then maybe the friendship has gone as far as it can go. That can be really hard, especially because you are young, and feel so close to her. However, I have found that sometimes people come in and out of your life. I am 30 now, and sometimes I catch up with old friends, but I have been very blessed to make new ones. I'm not saying that you cannot be friends. I'm just saying, that sometimes that happens. Only you know the right decision for you. It was abt your age that I began having to trust myself and not my friends. I do agree though abt the advice you recieved to try other things with your friend. I have friends who are moms, and some that are not. However, if I go out with one who does not have children, and I need to ake mine, we see a kids movie or something. I will say that EVERYONE who knows me understands that FAMILY, i.e. my husband, and daughter are a HUGE priority in my life. There are times that you do have to say no, because it does not work with a child. We are the only people in our Bible Study who have a child. It does get awkward at times. I will say that we have missed things, because she could not be involved. At first, this disappointed us. However, now we just make the best of it and do something fun with our daughter. Hope this helps...
Blessings,
K