M.K.
Good Morning. I've never heard the advice that spoon-feeding prior to 6 months is bad. I started both my kids on rice cereal around 5 months with a spoon. My Pediatrician recommended against putting cereal in the bottle, but I can't remember why. Spoon feeding can be trying! Both of my children went through a "food & spoon rebellion" in which they refused to eat about a week after starting the rice cereal. So we put the cereal away for another week...and then started all over again.
At such a young age, your son is likely to continue to need night feedings, but the number will start to decrease over time. I don't think the cereal will have much to do with it. I think it is more related to his age.
Here's what I found on the website of the American Academy of Pediatrics...
Source: Starting Solid Foods (Copyright © 2005 American Academy of Pediatrics)
Starting Solid Foods
When can my baby start eating solid foods?
Most babies are ready to eat solid foods at 4 to 6 months of age. Before this age, most babies do not have enough control over their tongues and mouth muscles. Instead of swallowing the food, they push their tongues against the spoon or the food. This tongue-pushing reflex helps babies when they are nursing or drinking from a bottle. Most babies lose this reflex at about 4 months of age. Energy needs of babies increase around this age as well, making this an ideal time to introduce solids.
You may start solid foods at any feeding. At first you may want to pick a time when you do not have many distractions. However, keep in mind that as your child gets older, she will want to eat with the rest of the family.
Kinds of foods
For most babies it does not matter what the first solid foods are. Many pediatricians recommend cereals first. The first cereals usually are offered in this order:
* Rice cereal
* Oatmeal cereal
* Barley cereal