i don't honestly remember when they started recommending them for kids. i only got it one year, and never for the boys. they may get them now. my dh gets one most years.
i had the full-blown flu a few years ago. i thought i was gonna die. it was vile. i've had it a few times in my life, maybe 4 or 5 total over my half a century. never a picnic.
i still don't get the vaccine. i think some vaccines are vital, many are great, but that the rush to get vaccinated for everything that comes down the pike is troubling. some of them are poorly researched moneymakers. i know we're all guinea pigs to some extent, but i get to pick just how much of a guinea pig i (and my kids) want to be.
while the flu vaccines are generally safe, they're also a crapshoot. the flu is very adaptable and is constantly morphing, and there's no way for the vaccines to anticipate or keep up with which strain is going to be problematic in any given year. and since no vaccine is totally safe, i choose to get those that have a real practical benefit as well as only those with a long proven track record of safety.
my dh got the flu despite having the vaccine one year. it was ghastly. i didn't have the vaccine the year i got it badly, so our household is a wash. my dh continues to get vaccinated, i continue not to, we eat well and work out and try to keep our immune systems robust, and seem to have about the same chance of getting sick.
khairete
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