Hi K.,
It sounds like what I suffered from when pregnant~~Sciatica.
I'm not sure about the red dot on the tip of your toe so let the doc check that out. But ask him about the Sciatica.
When pregnant & even now I still suffer from this condition. A lot of pressure on your body, back & it causes this. They will probably recommend some type of anti-inflammatory but not sure what's safe these days. Make sure you ask the doc.
The pain is so much worse @ night because of the pressure on your lower back, sciatic nerve~~if that is what you have. I use to have to jump up & walk around since that was the only thing that would relieve the horrible pain, burning sensation in my big toe. I had numbness, tingling, pain, everything you talk about.
Good luck. My boys are now 17, 14,11 & wonderful.
My boys are great!!Very protective & loyal to me. You have a lot to look fwd too.
C. Sexton