Hi A.:
You say,that you've created some (bad habits)I'm guessing, that you mean,you have built a close bond with your baby,by rocking him(soothing him to sleep)each night,and now you want him to (not want that)It would be like (you growing accustom to your husband cuddling up next to you every night,too him suddenly leaving you lay there alone. Oh...and while you were in pain. How would that ajustment be for you? I have to assume,that you are having problems with this pregnancy,as at five months,you shouldn't be that big and uncomfortable,that it hurts to sit and rock your baby.I can't help but sense that your real complaint is his (sleeping with you) Your son is only A little over a year old. He's hurting,and doesn't understand why. He IS NOT going to understand your pleas for more understanding,or your plans for a better nights sleep, He is not mature enough to comprehend logic. CIO,is not good for the baby,or you. Especially in your condition.It can be a tremendously frustrating,heart-wrenching hurtful experience for you,and your baby will only feel abandoned,and ignored.I would recomend Staying in his room with him,and rocking him,after giving him something for his pain.YOU are the one that brought him into your bed. You need to get him use to being back in his own room,but it can be done in a soothing mater, You need patience. This is an excellent time to practice that,as you'll have to have plenty once your second arrives in September.The very best to you A..