I know this is late, and I know that alot has changed since i had my daughter 7 years ago. However, just wanted to share my POSITIVE experience hoping it will help someone in mamasourceland. I was almost 44 years old when I delivered my one and only child. My doctor educated me on the tests and left the decision up to me. I decided that because I had no intention of terminating the pregnancy regardless of the results, I did not want to put both myself and my child through the stress of it as well as the risks.
AFTER I informed my doctor of my decision, he confided in me that his wife had had a miscarriage as a result of an amnio. I don't know for sure who did her amnio, however, I would imagine that an OBGYN would have a specialist doing an amnio on his wife!
My daughter was 10 Lbs 3.8 Ounces and 21 1/2 inches. There was NO diabetes,NO morning sickness, NO stretch marks and I carried to term and delivered with a "scheduled" C-Section at almost 44 years of age.
She is now a happy, healthy, intelligent 7 1/2 yrs old and was evaluated for gifted in Kindergarten!
The BEST advise I received from my OBGYM at the beginning of my pregnancy was this:
"You are going to receive alot of "unsolicited" advise, and MOST of it will most likely be negative, mostly because negative is more interesting, just like in the news. I am the doctor, however, you know your own body better than ANYONE! LISTEN TO YOUR BODY! YOU are the expert when it comes to your own body". I was very determined to do this and have a positive experience and I did!
My suggestion for anyone currently pregnant is to
Keep positive thoughts and people around you and don't get caught up in listening to or reading "horror stories", especially on the Internet.