D.M.
M.,
The milk thing is tricky! Just give it time. My son didn't really know what to do with the 'regular' milk, plus we started him on Soy because of his lactose issues. But, we've tried everything and now at 30 months, he loves milk (Horizon Lactose Free) and even asks for it.
I found we were most successful with shakes, added stuff like chocolate powder or Ovaltine and mixing it with other stuff until he got used to the taste. Just give it time and she'll get used to it. Or you could opt for other stuff like rice milk or almond milk that has a sweeter taste and the same stuff as cow's milk.
Good Luck!