Hi D.,
I too am a west coast girl. ( Santa Barbara) We moved here 5 years ago and we're loving it.The suggestions you're looking for will determine where you and/or your husband will be working. From personal experience I'll tell you that I Love N. Raleigh... My husband works in Durham and it's a 20 min. commute for him. Be live in the Bedford community right off of Falls of Neuse. This place has so much to offer. Tennis, basketball,swimming pool, kiddie pool, 3 playgrounds and miles and miles of sidewalk. There are special events at the 3500 sq. ft. clubhouse, Karaoke night, ice cream socials for the kids, bunko for the ladies,valentines dinners, new years party etc... We also have a large green area where the community easter egg hunt takes place ( not one of our favorites, too crowded and ends too fast) movie night's on the green, concerts, festivals etc.
Two of my kids are in elementary school (k & 1st) They attend Brassfield Road Elementary and really enjoy it. It's 8 min. drive . There are also Wakefield Elementary, Wakefield Middle and Wakefield High about 5 min away.
Bedford also just opened up a daycare center and there's another one opening in March (Kiddie Academy I think).there will also be a Gym, cafe & some other shops. Great doctors, dentists, grocery all a few minutes away. Boy I'm really selling it huh? The truth is that the first year we moved here I hated everything and just wanted to go home. I used to tell my husband (when I was angry) that I was going to move back to our home there and he could come visit whenever he could :) As you can see I've adjusted. I have a great realtor who put up with us and found us this house.Feel free to get in touch with me if you need any more detail.
Deb S
Full time stay at home mom of 2 boys & 1 girl